Midlands Male Assertive and quietly Dom.Bad news first, I'm married, she doesn't know and I'm not going to hurt her by 'being honest' if that's a problem for you it's your problem and not something I'll discuss with anyone until I know them.
Better news, relativly new to BDSM having discovered it online and now looking to move forward. Ex-RAF..with sense of humour and the ridiculus, able to laugh at myself, friendly, and caring and of course discreet.

Good news, I'm not looking for an easy lay or just a quickie, but something more long term with someone perhaps in a similar position to myself who understands the need for discretion and yet also has needs to be fulfilled. Sex IS part of the relationship as far as I am concerned if your BDSM lifestyle doesn't include it I can respect that, as long as YOU can respect my choice. Whilst I'm happy to chat etc, I'm not here to learn tiddleywinks or to expound on theories but to meet someone in real life so. if this isn't your goal do not waste my time with offers/requests of roleplay or cyber. N.B. I'm looking or a submissive female, NOT a MALE, a COUPLE or a GROUP to join, kindly respect this and you will be respected.