Hi my name is Kelly. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile.

I will attempt to paint a picture that will touch on some of the aspects of who I am. I am aware of the limitations of this format given the complexities of who each of us is but this will at least give you a taste.

I have been fascinated by transsexuals for many years, so having come out of 17 years of monogamous marriage to a genetic female in November of 2007 I am now very much appreciating being with the transgendered. I have come to realize I need more than a regular woman can give me. I am very adventurous. With the right partner I am ready to try just about anything. Contact me if you wish detailed descriptions.

Although vanilla sex can be fulfilling, from time to time I enjoy being totally dominated by my partner. In everyday life I promote equality but playing with power dynamics through sexual role-playing can be exciting. I am also willing to switch. I like both top and bottom but am respectful of my partner’s limits.

I have a lot of respect for the courage of those willing to follow their draw to live a transgendered lifestyle. It shows a lot of character.

I'm particularly (but not exclusively) attracted to transsexuals with a sense of humor, creativity and most of all someone with an open mind and an open heart. Hopefully you will be proud and confident in whom you are and the choices you are making. My respect is there for you, as you, like all of us, find (or have found) who you are and where you fit.

I have had a life full of adventures. Some difficult and some filled with ease. I would not take back a minute of it! It’s been a terrific education and I have learned lots.

I've learned that things in life happen for a reason and flowing the best I can with the changes while staying aware serves well. All the pieces continue to fall into place and life gets better and better.

I live by doing my best to follow some personal guidelines.... being pure of heart, compassionate and giving, while being strong in knowing and standing for what is appropriate for me. Being accountable and following through on my dedications. Staying open to receiving. Giving to others when called to, without attachment. Reciprocating acts of kindness. Bringing laughter and play into the lives of others and myself.

Living with as much integrity as I can access.

Being very grateful for what I have. Enjoying friendships. Respecting possessions without attaching to them. Doing the work I love. Finding value in every day.

Being accepting of other’s non-harming choices in life. Honoring that we are all unique, and trusting that I will be drawn towards the uniqueness that attracts me and away from the flavors of uniqueness that do not - while still respecting others right to choose freely.

Honoring my own personal flavor of sexuality without prejudice. Being accepting of the personal non-harming sexual choices of others.

Embracing the passing of time; with age can come much wisdom when I stay awake to the inherent learnings.

Being guided by curiosity into seeking out various paths of learning. Looking to broaden my depth of understanding in my areas of interest.

Learning from my mistakes without getting lost in guilt or shame. Like everyone else I am human and I am going to make mistakes along the way. Owning those mistakes, processing the feelings, forgiving myself, apologizing to whomever was effected, making restitution, and re-dedicating to loving action in the future.

Remembering that my guidelines are my own. Not being naïve enough to expect others to live up to my guidelines for life. Others will make their own choices about what works for them. If needing to make boundaries in order to care for myself in the face of the choices of others, doing so.

Respecting all aspects of myself - mind, body, emotions and spirit. At the same time being willing to take myself lightly and laugh at myself.

Opening to receive the fullness that each day offers. Rather than waiting for a “good day” to magically arrive, finding the goodness in each day that shows up. Knowing the tough and challenging days have value as well as the ones that are full of ease.

Well that is a few bits about me.

With someone of interest I am open to getting together to visit with no expectations, just exploration to see where it does or does not lead. If it happens to open to a sexual connection for both of us I am willing to start with a no strings attached “one night stand” for fun and exploration. From there we can see if that is enough or if we want to explore further.

If my profile has stirred an interest I invite you to contact me.