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KellyGrace

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I'm wondering if it is possible to find something remotely close to my wishes.

I am currently very stable and happy in my life as a single woman, and that is something i do not wish to change abruptly.

Though i am single, i still run my "house" in much of the 1950's style.  I take pride in cooking, yes i wear aprons.  My home is always clean.  I am always well dressed and primped properly.  I speak softly.  I do not curse.

My ideal match would be able to provide the Dominant match to my submissive side in a manner that would not complicate my life or require my life to change.

I am not looking for 24/7 - but i am looking for complete submission to a Dominant man as it would trickle into the nooks and crannies of my life. 

I consider the Dominant and submissive give and take as something of eloquence and class.   You will not find me posting risque pictures of myself, nor will i fulfill any requests for something of that nature unless they were to eventually come from the one i would call my Dominant.

With that being said, i am open to any Dominant Man OTHER than married men.  Separated is fine, but please, i do not want to be a hidden toy on the side.

I would like to have some type of focus in someones life.

A bit more about me:

I feel i am one of those elusive "natural" submissives.  I grew up watching my mother stay home and take care of the home and the family -- and she treated my father like the king he truly was to our family.

I naturally adapted those submissive attributes to my own life -- sometimes to a fault.

I am not so much interested in the kink as i am the natural mindset and emotional aspects of the D/s lifestyle.

I desire to have a Dominant Man in my life to be a type of guiding force, adviser, teacher, trainer, confidant, friend, and lover.

I am more interested in someone's ability to Dominate my mind and thoughts as opposed to how good they are at shibari, or how many toys they own.

Please do not misunderstand me -- i have a very high sex drive -- but i thrill more at intimacy and sensuality than i do a S&M and kink play.

I am only interested in those who are near me by location, and between the ages of 38 and 50.

There is much more i could elaborate on -- but there must be something left for conversations sake.

I appreciate any well thought out messages.

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10/7/2010 12:21:32 AM
Please excuse my absence and/or lack of activity/responding on here.

My health took a temporary quick dive and things must be attended to.

Taking some much needed personal time to allow treatments to take effect, and recoup.

10/3/2010 10:10:54 PM
Messages that astound me:

Hi

How are you?

Look at my profile.

I'm interested in you.

I know you have age/location requirements, but...  (sent from someone over 55, and another one from Italy)

Repeated messages from someone I haven't responded to. 

Reminders that I haven't responded.

But with all of these silly things, is it really necessary to respond to ALL messages, including those from men who obviously have not read my profile - because - if they did - they would realize i have small requirements - and they do not fit within that.

In addition - I think some men around here take rejection worse than females.  I have been called horrid names, berated, insulted - all because i've either not responded to someone or said i wasn't interested.

I sometimes think it might be better to join one of those fancy "vanilla" match sites and take my chances.

9/25/2010 9:24:36 PM
Thank you for the suggestion of the mail controls.  I was unaware of them up until now.

Hopefully this will save some headaches.

9/24/2010 11:25:27 PM
Not even here a full day and already becoming overwhelmed with messages.

To those that take the time to write something of substance, it is appreciated, and consider this a thank you.

I do not see the need to respond to every single message, especially if it is not to my requests including distance, age, etc.

If i do not respond, then please consider that disinterest. 

Nothing personal to those i am not interested in, it's just the way it is.

I will respond to messages from those who have written me something of substance and who i feel may be a possibility worth continuing correspondence.

On another note, i am quite surprised at the amount of men out there who have responded to me with a simple "Hi" or "How are you?".

A kind suggestion - learn to develop communication skills.  Doing so may very well help your chances on this site.  I'm sure i cannot possibly be the only one on this site to NOT respond to such lazy messages.

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Arabella23
 
 Age: 29
 Oregone, Oregon