A nice quote, source unknown, worded vanilla, but still applicable to Domme/sub at times ..... "One of the greatest things a man can do for his mate, is to at times just hold her, silence her mind, allow her to let go of the world, and allow her to simply 'be'."

My first Humbler (fiction)  ....  It is a warm summer morning, growing hotter, on a Saturday, and she asks me to mow our front lawn.  The lawn is isolated, fortunately, our house is in a wooded area and she instructs me to mow in shorts, socks and shoes only with the push mower, also to wear boxers under the shorts.  The front yard is a small size and only takes about 40 minutes to mow.  As i get out the mower and get started, she settles into a chair on the covered porch with a glass of tea and watches.  After about 15 minutes she motions me to stop and come to the porch, I do so .... once there she instructs me to turn around and bend over, my backside now facing her.  I then feel her hand on my inner thighs pushing gently to spread my legs.  With a skilled hand she reaches inside my boxers, grabs my balls and gives them a gentle pull.  "The warm day makes them loose and pliable" ... she whispers to me ... "But they are not ready yet ... keep mowing."  I do as instructed and go another 15 or so minutes, nearly finishing the yard and again she her motion to me to pause and come to her again.  She repeats the procedure, pulls again and says ... "Better but still not there yet ... continue".  Again I resume mowing and in another 10 minutes finish the yard.  During this time I noticed she had gone briefly inside, and came back with a small box, now sitting beside her on the porch.  "Just put the mower beside the porch for now and come back to me" ... she instructs, and I quickly obey.  Back on the porch she again has me stand and bend over away from her, and she yet again inspects my balls, now nearly able to pull them out from under my boxers on my right side.  "Hummm ... ok I think we are just about ready" ... she then states .... "the warm morning has loosened your balls very nicely ... now quickly remove your shorts and underware and resume that position."  I quickly do so and again stand, bending over and spreading my legs for her inspection.  She now moves her chair close behind me and I can hear her opening the box on the porch.  "This my sweetie is called a humbler" ... as she lifts the device forward briefly into my view ... "and today is your first test fit .... bend over very far now, and grab your ankles".  I quickly do so and notice that she has me positioned still just in the sun, but she is in the shade, and I can feel the sun both on my bottom and my balls.  I then hear noises, what sounds like hardware being loosened, the wood pieces hitting briefly, and then can feel as she places it above my balls, gently aorund my hanging sack, tightening the screws to hold it in place.  I can also feel the side extensions against the backs of my legs.  "Oh that is beautiful" ... she then murmers, more to heself then to me .... "it fits perfect". "Now just a little humbler play" ... she states, and with that she stands up, walks off the porch into the yard, and approaches a small sappling tree we had recently planted, and breaks off a short piece of small branch, about 10" long.  She then walks back and resumes her seated position behind me.  I have not moved during this time.  "Hummm they are so nice and loose" .... I hear her state, and again feel her touching, testing and gently pulling them, all the while I now feel how they are trapped, and I can sense intuitively that I cannot stand up.  "Ok here is your first humbler lesson" ... she stands and for a second there is quiet.  What I don't see is she is taking the sapling branch, holding an end in one hand and bending the other right over my balls, and preloading the branch in her hands.  All of a sudden there is a "snap" on my left ball, and I can feel the sting all the way into my belly, I try very hard not to move, but do shake a little.  She then takesmy ball in her hands examining it.  "Hummm, very nice sweetie, it's swelling some just like I wanted .... but it bothers me now they are not the same size".  With that there is a short pause and then again  ... "snap"... now on my right ball, again the sting can be felt all the way up in my torso.  Again she checks her work, then leans forward and kissed each ball gently, an amazing pleasure along with the amazing pain.  "Perfect" she then murmers, again more to herself then to me.  After another brief pause I now hear her stand and open the front door to the house.  "Come inside my pet" ... she now instructs, and instinctly I go right to my knees and begin to crawl, following her into the house.  She watches this and responds "Very good my pet."  We have had the AC on inside the house all morning and there is a vent in the floor just inside the living room area.  After another short pause I feel her walk up to me and take my head in her hands, I am still in the crawling position, and feel her start to push me backwards.  "crawl backwards my pet" ... she then instructs ... "Here I will guide you".  She then guides me back a short distance and I realize she is parking my balls right over the AC vent in the floor, now running nearly full blast, and sure enough pauses me right over the vent ... "Now kneel like a dog" ... she says ... "Put your balls directly on the vent ... we are going to cool them and let them try to pull back into place ... but it won't be easy"... I hear her giggle.  She then holds my head briefly, then releases and walks away down the hall.  "I am off to get more toys" ... I hear her say ... "Your little balls are not through yet today" .. and again I hear her gently laugh.  (to be continued)

Tips for pleasing a woman orally.  First use lots of foreplay, licking, kissing, sucking other areas, skin in general, nipples, neck, toes, fingers, inner thighs, touch (gentle) and lips, tongue, take her direction, respond to her needs, be one with her essence.  When finally focusing on the most sensual part, be slow, be gentle, lick and suck at length, taste and enjoy her wetness and breath in her pheromones.  Pay attention to the entire area, but also find her clit, softly, sensually.  After time focus more on the clit, rhythmic movements and licking, sucking, try to find the small shaft, and the head, realize the nerve endings in each, and how many there are, also how intense the pleasure can be.  Small tongue circles around the tip of the clit are nice, also at times small but gentle tongue flicks of the head.  If your hands are free (not bound by her), gently touch and caress other surrounding areas, belly, inner thighs and perhaps nipples too at the same time.  At times touch barely brushing the skin, a teasing and very soft sensual touch.  Once you set a rhythm and feel her building, don't stop that rhythm.  Rhythm and pace are essential to her release.  Feel her respond and continue to build, focus more on the clit during that time but as always be gentle.  Finally you will feel her start to reach that point of no return, settle into your pace with tongue/lips during this time and do not stop or pause under any circumstances.  As she releases, slow just a little, as the clit and surrounding area will be very sensitive.  If she grabs your head in her heads, let her position you as she will, if still close to the clit, just apply a constant gentle kiss during those few seconds after her climax.  As always taste her wetness, and feel her essence.  Finally if she is willing, move to hug and cradle here in those minutes of afterglow, and let her recover.  Touch should always be gentle and at her lead.  Perhaps after a few minutes, the act can be repeated :)

"Training the Young Mistress"   (this is a work of fiction, at least so far, but it speaks to the heart)

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Mistress Karen is in her mid 40's and is a math teacher at the local University.  As a mid 40's returning student myself, that is how I was found, it was as though she could smell and taste my submissiveness from across the room in her class.  After asking me to stay after class briefly a few times, we then met once at a local restaurant, and finally after some time she took me home.  At her apt I became clay, I was stripped, inspected, lightly bound arms behind my back, legs loosely tied together but still kind of able to walk, and then made to service her orally for hours.  All of this was new to me but it all seemed to fit, and felt right, something that had actually been missing from my entire life up to that point. Other frequent play included general bondage, some light spanking, some anal exploration, and a collar and leash. Over time these meetings became twice or three times a week, usually in the evenings or on the weekends, work and schedules permitting, and I continued forming myself to her soul and spirit.  One of her favorite things above all else was oral service, even on her period, and I soon found myself craving those "pheromone times" during all hours of the day and night.  This formed a deep chemical bond that I didn't fully appreciate at the time, but touched my most primal brain, bonding me profoundly to her.  I was allowed occasional release, usually in her hand, and was always made to clean up orally for her after wards.

One night as per our "procedures" of sorts, I got a text message instructing me to visit her that night, but on this night the instructions were a little different from the usual.  I was instructed to ... "Take extra time showering, show up at 7p as usual, and be ready for something new".  I responded with my usual ... "Yes Mistress" ... and as it was about 6pm by that time already I quickly got prepared.  Upon arriving at her apt I did find this would be a very unusual night, for there with my Mistress Karen was another slightly younger woman, also beautiful in body, and both holding glasses of wine.  Mistress Karen quickly broke the ice, almost before I had time to think ...  "Steve this is Susan, she is a Mistress in training tonight, I know this is a bit of a surprise but I ask you the following, as you are just arriving you may speak this one time, if you have reservations, you may leave, it is Ok, but we are hoping you will stay.  If you stay, you must however do anything we wish, you may not complain, and we will go until we are finished with you, do you understand steve?" ...  With that she gave me that small smile that always melts me, and paused.  As always in her presence, I am putty, and this was no exception ... "Yes Mistress" ... I humbly replied, and with that she smiled much wider ... "Very good steve."

I found out a little later that this Mistress Susan had also been discovered at the university, a student in Karen's classes, and that the two had almost immediately become friends, again that natural dominant woman's intuition bonding them.  Susan had been in vanilla relationships but had yet to truly explore her dominant side, and Mistress Karen wanted to correct that.  I then heard  Mistress Susan's voice for the first time that night, as their plan had already been outlined in advance ... "Slave steve go shower again yet again, use very hot water, as hot as you can stand, come back naked wearing only your collar and leash, and keep your eyes down at all times in our presence" ....  Her voice too had that natural dominance, and again I melted and knew in my heart I was theirs for the night, no questions asked.  I quickly turned and made my way to the shower, and could hear in the distance them both enjoying more wine and then moving to Mistress Karen's bedroom, and I commenced to take my quick shower.

Out of the shower I put on my collar and leash as I always did for Mistress Karen and upon moving to the bedroom I found them both seemingly relaxed and engaged in idle small talk.  As I entered, hands naturally behind my back, head down, Karen signaled me to approach her.  "First let's restrain him" .... Mistress Karen then uttered and Susan approached beside her to watch.   "Arms around front" ... Karen then commanded.  With that I moved my arms quickly to my front and I felt my usual soft lined leather wrist straps being attached around my wrists, and then those attached together with another short strap locking my hands to my front.  "Right leg up"...  she then commanded and as I fought to keep my balance I could feel an ankle strap also being applied.  "Ok you try this one" .. she directed to Susan.  With that I heard Susan command a soft ... "Left leg" ... and I quickly switched feet and raised my left foot as high as possible, again fighting to stay balanced.  With great efficiency though she had it on, and I felt a push of her hand to lower my leg.  As I stood they then connected a similar ankle attaching strap between my ankles, but to my surprise left it very loose. 

They both then walked towards the bed.  "Ok up on the end of the bed here steve" ... Mistress Karen commanded ... "On hands and knees, butt high in the air facing us, head towards the other end of the bed, and legs spread." ....  With that I carefully climbed over the end of the bed, backing myself as far back as possible, feet just hanging off the bed, and as instructed sticking my ass as high in the air as possible.  They continued a little idle small talk, still sipping wine and moved directly behind me, finally putting their wine glasses down on the small night table by the bed. 

"Ok so let's begin lesson 101 on the male slave" ... Mistress Karen began ... "And we are going to start with his balls. The male slave's balls are in a sense his essence, the old adage of males thinking with a one track mind, it begins here" ... With that she took her right index finger and thumb and formed a small ring, grabbing my balls right at the top of the sack, with a force I had never felt before she began pulling down.  "We're going to stretch them a little now" ... she added as she did this ... "This can also be done with weights over time ... but tonight we'll just give a few gentle pulls.".  I realized then this was the reason for my hot shower just a short time before, to make me as loose as possible.  "Have you ever done this to a male before Susan? ... Karen asked ...."No I sure haven't" ...was the reply with a small chuckle at the end.  I could sense both Karen and Susan were enjoying this immensely.  "Ok you try now" ... Karen then added .. and after withdrawing her hand I felt Mistress Susan's hand quickly take the same position and begin a similar downward pull.  "Don't be afraid" .... Mistress Karen then added, his body will tell you if it is too much." ... With that she put her hand over briefly over Susan's hand and greatly increased the downward pressure, and finally my knees started to buckle from the intensity ... "See there?" ... she added, and released her hand again. 

This continued for some minutes, as did my realization they were in absolute control of my body, and I was completely subservient.  "Ok now just rub them, squeeze them and feel them" .. Karen instructed ... "In particular, feel the cords that run down to each ball, this single cord is the only thing sustaining each testicle ... and as you may know from basic animal husbandry, farm hands and veterinarians routinely make use of this in their work" ....  With that they both laughed and again I felt utterly subservient, almost in a trance.  For some time I felt Susan's hands roam over my balls, she was losing any reservation and becoming completely absorbed in the moment.  Finally then she reached a little higher and traced each cord, running each cord between her finger and thumb, squeezing each slightly.  "Do you like?" .... Mistress Karen asked ... "Oh very very much" ... Susan replied.  "Ok let's move on"... Karen then commanded.  With that she grabbed a latex glove and handed it to Susan ... "Here put this on" ... she instructed.  Susan did so.  "Ok part two of tonight's lesson, the male slave anus" ... she then continued ... "has many purposes ... but first and foremost as a toy for your pleasure ... "Let's oil him up" ... she concluded.  With that a bottle of oil was produced.  "First notice all the little tiny folds of skin .. and the tight muscle ring .. he is very tight tonight, but we will fix that." ...  Mistress Karen had given me some anal training before, but I could tell in her voice that tonight was going to be much more intense.  With that she also put on a latex glove placed a towel under me on the bed, and poured oil literally over her gloved hand and fingers.  "First we work the oil into those little folds of skin" ... she said starting to make small circles ... "Oh he is so tight tonight ... Ok now you try" ... she then exclaimed.  I then heard Susan also lubricating her hand.  "Have you ever done this before? ... Karen asked ..   "No man has allowed me to do this, but I have wanted too" ...Susan replied.  I then felt Susan's finger start the same circular motion, and could feel the wetness of the oil started to wick inside me.  "Ok make smaller and smaller circles now and start to increase the pressure ... don't be afraid ... go ahead and slip in one finger" .. Karen instruction.  With that I took a deep breath and sure enough within seconds she increased the pressure and then her finger was inside.  "Ohhhhhhh" ... Susan exclaimed.  "Notice the ring of muscle" .. Karen then added ... "But once you are past it, you are inside ... and he is yours" ....  I could then feel Susan probing, touching feeling, inserting her finger as far as possible.  "Ok now push down towards his penis" ... Karen instructed ... "Can you feel something a little firm and kind of round there? ... that is his prostate" ... I could feel Susan further probing and then nodding ..."Yes I feel it" .... she responded.

"Ok time for lesson 3" .... Mistress Karen then exclaimed ... "Male milking".  With that Karen got a pillow and placed it directly under my head, as I was still on my hands and knees, Susan's finger remained inside.  "Place your head on the pillow Slave but keep your butt in the air" .... Karen instructed and I did so, arching my back further and yet more exposing my bottom area to them.  As I buried my face in the pillow I felt Karen's hand grab my cock and pull it down and backwards so they could clearly see the tip.  "Ok start a rhythmic pressing of his prostate" .. Karen instructed ... "Push gently ... release ... push a little more .. release ... and look for drops of precum".  I was already wet by this point and within seconds I could feel additional dribbles, and after a few seconds I felt a finger touch and gently wipe the my wetness from tip of my penis.  It was Karen's finger on her ungloved hand and after wetting it she brought it to my face and instructed ... "Lick Steve" .. and quickly inserted the finger into my mouth.  Again in a trace of complete submission, I did as instructed, and once happy her finger was clean she withdraw it, and I felt my head pushed back into the pillow.

"Ok now we put it all together" ... Karen announced ... "Here is what we are going to do, a tag team of sorts ... First also know that when a male tries to climax, his balls generally pull up, it's a completely natural reaction ... one way to control his climax is simply to watch for this and pull them gently back down, with just enough force to stop the climax ... then release and repeat again as you wish."   Karen then took a deep breath and continued ... "I am now going to rub his cock, you keep your finger inside massaging his prostate, and also grab his balls again ..... when you fell them try to tighten, pull down ... and let's see how long we can do this .. does that sound ok?" ... I didn't hear anything but I sensed Susan nodding in enthusiasm.  "Slave Steve .... you have been very good tonight" ... Mistress Karen added ... "and I'm willing to make a deal ... if you can resist cuming for 5 minutes, we'll allow you to release, but as always you'll have to clean your mess, I will catch it in my hand ... on the other hand if you fail ... and cum too soon ... we are going to move to lesson 4 tonight, which is caning" .... I had never been caned before so this was new to me, but did sound intensely scary.  I nodded as best I could.  "Ok" .. she replied.

Almost instantly I felt Karen grab my cock and begin her very practiced stroking, and could feel her other hand just below and occasionally brushing the tip of my cock, ready to catch my fluids.  After the excitement of the night I almost immediately released.  She seemed to sense this and slowed down, at least giving me a chance.  "Ok Susan, go ahead and pull his balls gently, and feel for a building climax, pull as needed, and also rub his prostate a little as we go" ... With that I felt a range of sensations I had never felt before, 4 female hands touching or close to my body, manipulating my responses and driving me completely to their will.  "Ok release a little of your pull for just a moment, let me build him up, and you see if you can stop him" ... Karen added ... Again I felt her hand tighten and quicken.  Again I nearly exploded ... "Ok pull now" ... Karen instructed and Susan quickly increased the pressure on my balls ... "Harder" .. Karen added .. and I felt the pull increase .. Sure enough I was able to hold my release.  "Do you feel the cause and effect?" .. Karen asked Susan... "Yes I sure do" ... Susan replied.  For a short period I lost all track of time.  Several times I almost released but was held back, my balls at the mercy of Susan's grip .. now both squeezing my balls as well as pulling as she quickly learned my response.  Finally as I was almost seeing colors with my eyes tight against the pillow I heard Karen say ... "Ok slave I think you made it ... we will let you cum ... Susan go ahead and release all pressure on his balls" .... I then felt Karen's hand yet again resume a faster stroke, my balls also found release, and within seconds I exploded into Karen's free hand.  "Oh so much volume" .. I heard Karen exclaim ... "slave you really out did yourself ... take a look Susan" ...  After a few seconds I felt all motion stop behind me and Susan withdrew her finger, leaving me again gasping for air.  I then felt a pull on the back of my head, Karen lifting my head off the pillow a little ..... "You know what to do slave" ... as she parked her wet filled hand under my mouth.  Still trying to regain my composure I began licking as instructed. 

"Why don't  you go freshen up real quick" .... Karen suggested to Susan, and I heard Susan move to the bathroom and begin to wash a little.  After some moments Karen seemed pleased with my work and pulled her hand away .... "Ok Steve" .. she commanded .. and she also went to the bathroom to wash.  After a few moments they both returned with a second towel which they placed under me but left me restrained .... "Lay down slave" ... Karen then instructed, which I did ... She then unclipped the short strap connecting my two wrists ... "Now hands behind" ... she instructed ... and I felt the short strap reattached wrists now firmly behind me.  She then also tightened the ankle connecting strap and finally I felt her attach yet another strap between the two, effectively hog tying me.  "Isn't he beautiful that way?" ... she uttered to Susan.  Again I heard nothing but sensed Susan nodding and most likely smiling.  With that Mistress Karen exclaimed ... "Let's get a refill on wine .. grab your glass" ... and both of them then moved to the kitchen, curiously closing the door behind them. 

As their voices faded into the kitchen I actually drifted off into a brief sleep, and briefly lost all track of  time.  Out of my haze I felt Karen's presence, perhaps an hour later.  In a very soft voice she murmured ... "Mistress Susan is gone now steve, she was very grateful and wishes to return again... is that ok my slave steve?" .. I nodded yes as best I could ... "Very good" ....  she replied now herself quickly getting undressed and climbing into the bed with me.  Still hog tied on my belly she then attached my leash to my wrists and ankles behind my back, pulling my head somewhat upright, and skillfully positioned her now unclothed beautiful wetness directly in front of my face.  "Eat now and do a good job" .... she instructed and I wiggled those few inches to touch her body with my mouth.  For the next half hour or so she came many times, and finally rolled away, the wine also having it's effect, and fell gently asleep.  I then also rolled on my side as best I could and got as comfortable as possible, also falling again into a sleep, and briefly in that daze just before sleep reliving the events of the evening in my mind.