Out with my domme/girlfriend on a date with empty pockets and hands full and tired of holding stuff while she is threatening me all the time to grab my hair and pull me down to my knees, slap my face, kick my crotch, grab and squeeze my balls, spit in the face... while I beg her not to (in public, but also hope that she still does lol) knowing full well she is capable of doing any or all of these things and would very much like to . Now that is a life, isn't it? ;)

Hi, I am new to the scene and this website :)

one thing I have noticed so far... lots of financial dommes on this site. Some of them are decent enough and let you now they expect money up front. But then there are others who waste your time first, make you believe you've found that one perfect owner for yourself and then let you know that they want your money. There are still others who give it different names and excuses like "it is only to check if you are serious enough" or "it is to see if you are real" lol no matter what disguise you hide it under, financial domination is the same and is not my thing.

I believe Domination is a lifestyle... not a job! If you want to make money, you should get a decent job. A submissive gets his pleasure knowing he is making an effort, trying hard to please his owner. I think that paying a domme takes the fun out of it. It gives the idea that even if I don't give my best, even if I don't put in every ounce of my effort into pleasing Her, it's okay since I am paying for it.