Hello!

If you're looking at this, I would assume you're looking for a submissive or slave to either play with, or else to form a relationship with. If you're looking for the former, then you're likely either local, and looking for a real time play partner, or else from another part of the world or country, and looking for someone to play with online.

While I don't really have a moral problem with either of the two, neither is what I'm looking for. Rather, I'm looking to form a long lasting relationship with a Dom/Master, who will allow me to serve them, discipline me, and play with me.

My interests have bounced around, and at times my level of interest in BDSM has moved up and down the scale. What has always stayed, is my interest and desire to have an effective power exchange relationship. I don't know how that will take shape; I believe that there are as many viable routes to take to a D/s relationship, as there are people.

While I am bi, I prefer to sub, or be a slave to men, and top women. Its not that I don't like women, but this is how I'm wired.
I have many likes and dislikes in the realm of D/s.. and I feel I'm malleable as to what my partner would choose to include. I've tried some things as extreme as Gorean, have gone the route of being a houseslave, have done ageplay, have held a diminutive/debased position, and lots of things in between those. I think if I had to depict my "perfect" balance, it would be described in terms of being a domesticated housewife, with elements of childlike obedience/training.

I love to serve, and hope to meet the person who will be interested in settling down with me, and helping me to provide both of us with what we both need. He to be a leader in his own home, being a protector, commander, and teacher, and I an obedient partner; brought to heel when necessary.

I am a single Mom, which provides for its own set of challenges. I'm not looking for a meal ticket for me and my child, however. In fact, I'm quite able to take care of myself and her, and enjoy my life. Ideally, I would like to find a Master who appreciates that fact. While I'm willing to be a stay-at-home slave, I feel that being out in the world gives me greater zest for my time at someone's feet at home.

I'm also not looking to jump into a D/s relationship with both feet. I think that anything done well, deserves to be done slowly. Ideally, I'd like to begin something with someone by learning to know them on a vanilla level then incorporating BDSM elements, and finally a permanent D/s relationship between us. I have unfortunately gone the route of an immediate relationship, and don't think it succeeds.

Right now, I'm living a very independent life, and I'm involved in the Drag world, as a reigning title holder. Please don't let my very independent attitude deter you. It is how I need to live, on my own for now. It is not what I eventually want, but it is a position of strength, and something I am not willing to give up until someone proves that they ARE going to be a viable Master to me.

So.. Please e-mail me, and I'll be happy to talk to you about whatever topic you bring up - Provided the subject line isn't something like, "On ur knees, cumbucket"