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No, I will not help you cheat on your wife. No, I am not interested in submitting to you. No, I will not react well if you ask me whether I'm a "good girl or a bad girl", BOY.? No, I don't think you're worth my time if you send a one-line message. No, I'm not going to bother to respond to Add requests if you can't even be bothered to send me a note first. I have no desire to talk to you if you don't have enough pride in yourself to proofread your profile and/or message. "You" has three letters, not one. And no, I probably don't want to fuck you.
This concludes the caveats portion of our program.
Over the past several months, I've started coming into my own as a top and a bottom. I've been learning, enjoying, and examining my tastes.
I enjoy the balance of delivering and receiving sensation. When topping, nothing pleases me more than the reactions of a partner who is having a hell of a time and isn't afraid to sound off about it. When bottoming, I love a good beating, where the overwhelming sensation forces a focus to the here and now, and the continual mental monologue finally ceases.
I enjoy the intersection of sexuality and BDSM when the chemistry is right, but I enjoy each separately in its own right as well. In my play, what is hot or sexy doesn't necessarily need to be sexual, sensation does not need to be sensuous, and intense does not need to be erotic.
Although I'm refining my concept of what I do and don't enjoy in the scene and working to increase my skill in using toys safely and well, I recognize that I still have much to learn. I am open to advice and instruction in ways to improve my skill and grow in self-knowledge.
I'm still new to exploring the concepts and aspects of D/s. I do not believe that the surrendering of control is to my taste at this time, though I am contemplating exploring the flip side of the dynamic. It is important to me to understand this element of the lifestyle, so I'd like to chat with folks who don't mind sharing their knowledge and thoughts.
Even if our play tastes aren't compatible, I'm always open to good conversation, so coffee and a spin through a bookstore is just fine! For those of you who like to play with ropes outside the bedroom, I'm also getting back into rock climbing.
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