I am not exactly looking at the moment. However I'm not exactly avoiding meeting some one if they are the right some one either.

First of all i will say out right there are things about me that you need to know before messaging me.

I am NOT submissive to women and i will not submit to women. I enjoy women deeply. So long as they are submissive or vanilla. For now though, i am mostly interested in submissive women to play with. I have been in a lot of relationships with women that were strictly vanilla and i am looking to explore more of the BDSM side of things. (There are always exceptions to that though.)

I honestly believe that a Ds relationship is based on trust, commitment and friendship. This means that i am not just going to bow down to you because you have been a Dom for years and you feel "Superior". I will figure all of this out on my own in due time. Build a foundation to play on and i am game. Tell me up front to bow to you and you will be blocked.

I also will not have sex with some one or cyber with anyone on the first or even the fourth day of speaking/hanging out. If i was just looking to get laid that is easy enough. I am here now looking for some one to connect to in all ways, not just physically. I can take care of myself if i get desperate for release.

If we are going to talk and become more than friends. You have to be 21 and over but younger than 35. I would like to meet a man that has more balls than i do. I seem to have issues with Doms not being strong enough for me. I lose interest if i can walk all over you and get away with it. I have some hard limits but i for the most part i am very open to most things. If you want to be my Dom i would rather you be interested in relationship, not just a toy whenever you want it. I really do need some one who is strict but compassionate. I also would like it if you were local. I am happy to have friends anywhere. I am not looking to relocate for some one. I have a life here that i am not willing to give up.

I will not give out my IM sn to just anyone. I like to share a few emails with people before talking to them outside of CM. I have made the mistake and ended up regretting it a few times. So please be patient.

Right now honestly i am healing from a very painful break up and some other events in my life. So for the most part i am looking for friends only. I will add more to my profile when i have recovered a little more.

Thank you all for reading.