Hey there everyone! I haven't been on here forever so I figured I would log on to waste some time and see who was still on here. About me: My name is Katyana or Kat. I'm a switchy bitch who is in a wonderful relationship with a switchy bastard :P He's learning more and more of the Dominant role slowly. I love that he is so open to learning more and more of the lifestyle with me. I'm a sex toy distributor. I do sex toy parties in the Northern Ohio area so if you're interested in having a party, inbox me and I'll get back to you as soon as possible. I'm not interested in "playing" or starting a relationship with anyone. I'm happy with the love of my life. I do run the local group called Lorain County Kinksters, which you can find on FL.
11/8/2010 6:04:33 PM
Lorain County Kinkster's November Munch
“Cum Join in the Convo”
General info:
date: Saturday, November 13, 2010 time: 06:30 PM to 08:30 PM where: Denny's Restaurant address: 1850 Henderson Drive, Lorain, Ohio 44052 map cost: What you order.... and order at least an appitizer and drink please dress code: Grandmother rule applies
Description
This is a friendly meeting. We will have a topic to discuss at each meeting. Join in and let the good times roll.
We are still building the group so feel free to bring guests who are kinky or kink friendly.
Out of respect for the venue. I ask that everyone (or couples) order at least an appetizer. They are allowing us to use the back room for free. It's the least we can do to show our hospitality!
If you have any questions please don't hesitate to contact me.
9/15/2010 8:14:24 PM
next time don't spare my feelings.... tell me if you don't want me
immediately.... it's easier to handle than falling for you than being
told such!
8/24/2010 6:02:06 PM
ugh.... today went from horrible to worse.... please pray for my
family.... we lost a family member too early... she left behind 3 kids
and she's only 24-25.... i'm not sure about details as they are not completely known at this point in time to myself....
8/21/2010 7:09:10 AM
Lorain County Kinksters Munch “Come join in the conversation”
General info
Date: Saturday,
September 04, 2010 time:6:00 PM to 9:00
PM where: Denny's Restaurant address: 1850 Henderson Dr map
Cost:Dinner...
whatever you order dress code:We
impose the *'Grandmother Rule'* for all munches. Please dress and behave as if
you were out with a *'vanilla'* grandmother.
Description
This group is for Kinksters in Lorain County, Ohio! So if you live in
Elyria, Lorain, Avon, Avon Lake, Oberlin, Wellington, Amherst, Vermillion,
Etc....please come on in and let's get acquainted!
This is a group that meets once a month. We accept both new and experienced
people who are interested in BDSM and meeting like minded people. Munches are a
good way to meet REAL people who will actually take the initiative to get off
line and out in the world. Please keep in mind that this is a no pressure
environment and we are here to MEET people and make friends...it is not a
trolling ground.
If you have any questions please don't hesitate to contact me.
7/27/2010 5:04:00 PM
i recently started a website that is basic information (i'm still updating it) as well as a girls journal. feel free to stop by and check it out (helpful hints on how to improve it would be appreciated also)
The Meal will cost approximately $10 a person with drinks... no alcohol is served
dress code:
We impose the 'Grandmother Rule' for all munches. Please dress and behave as if you were out with a 'vanilla' grandmother.
Description
This
group is for Kinksters in Lorain County, Ohio! So if you live in
Elyria, Lorain, Avon, Avon Lake, Oberlin, Wellington, Amherst,
Vermillion, Etc....please come on in and let's get acquainted!
This is a group that meets once a month. We accept both new and
experienced people who are interested in BDSM and meeting like minded
people. Munches are a good way to meet REAL people who will actually
take the initiative to get off line and out in the world. Please keep
in mind that this is a no pressure environment and we are here to MEET
people and make friends...it is not a trolling ground. To attend a
munch you must RSVP with Katyana
.
We impose the 'Grandmother Rule' for all munches. Please dress and behave as if you were out with a 'vanilla' grandmother.
Everyone is welcome to join the yahoo and facebook groups also...
You will get emails weekly about events, munches and etc....We will
probably have it linked to other local or state wide events that way we
don't seclude ourselves from the rest of the state!
10/12/2009 3:12:20 PM
she's gone.... She held on strong for approximately 30 minutes.... my mom told her... "Stop fighting, it's time to go home." and my grandmother passed on at 1:30p EST.
10/11/2009 7:43:50 PM
My gramma is 87 years old and has been falling a lot lately. Today
she was out in her driveway talking to a neighbor, the neighbor went
inside and my gramma tripped over something and fell, she has stitches
in her hands and now is bleeding in the head. They life flighted her
from Community to Cleveland Clinic to find out exactly where the
bleeding is. I'm scared as hell and worried.... I feel like there is
nothing I can do because i don't have the money to get to cleveland
(less than a 1/4 tank of gas and my kids father's aren't paying a lick
of child support at this point) and I'm also so busy doing homework
that I'm still behind on....not to mention I have no one to watch the
boys for me either so I could go to the hospital if I could..... Life
really sucks right now!
I'm scared that it's worse than everyone is telling me just to get
me to calm down and relax and not worry.... I want to just sleep....
Not to mention I'm also on edge because Sir and I got into a HUGE
fight last night over something so trival that was blown out of context
without understanding everything first and he's not here either is
making everything harder also!!!
I just want to fuckin' scream and cry but I can't because of my
kids. They don't understand what's going on. I just said that Great
Gramma fell and hurt herself. AHHHHHHHHHHH
My gramma went through an operation. They found a blood clot on her brain. I'm scared about all of
this.... I'm not ready to have another grandparent pass away. I have
lost both of my grandfather's and my precious God-Mother since I was 7
yrs old. I'm not ready to lose my grandmother before I graduate
college, get married, and see my children graduate. I know I'm being
selfish but I can't help it... We have our differences on life but I
love her very much. She's helped me out so much financially when I was
struggling after my son's father walked away.
I feel so damn helpless. I have sat here for 20 minutes crying my
eyes out because I'm scared for her. I tried to make a joke about her
hair being shaved off where they were going to do the surgery (she goes
to the salon every 2 weeks like clockwork to get her hair done). I
said.... "Oh My! Gramma's not going to like that they touched her hair!
She's going to scream about her precious hair!" My mom laughed and I
started crying. My gramma has the most beautiful white and gray hair.
On Friday (October 9, 2009) they took her for an MRI and she had a stroke that pretty much shut down her entire brain and part of her upper spinal cord. My mom and her brother's decided that it's best to pull the machines off her and let her pass. it's the hardest thing to do but it's the right thing to do.
9/1/2009 6:17:40 AM
I'm working on getting a solid place for munches every month. I'm
looking at a few smaller cafe's or coffee type houses. Since they
usually have a more intimate relaxing type setting. If anyone knows of
any nice coffee type shops please let me know. If you have the phone
numbers it would be better. I would really like them to be in the
Lorain/Amherst/Elyria area since I have more people that are starting
to join that are farther west than Lorain.
So far I have the following establishments as ideas:
Classique Cafe - on Rt 254/North Ridge Road in Sheffield Centre
Golden Corral - West River Rd across from Midway Mall
Jim's Cafe - On Broad Street in Elyria
If anyone knows of any other smaller/medium sized venues please
let me know. I'm going to make a decision within the next few days. No
input means you can't complain about where the venue is going to be!!! TWC... Don't complain just because you can either!! LOL
7/23/2009 12:07:10 PM
So I was seriously considering a boy for several months. I'm glad I
found out that he was a fake before I moved down to him next year like
it was planned. I found out that he still hadn't filed for his divorce,
that he was talking about me behind my back telling others all about my
problems with my kids fathers etc, told people I was begging for money,
that because my kids were mixed that he couldn't go further with our
relationship (because the kids couldn't at least some what pass off as
his own), amongst other things.
People never cease to amaze me by looking at the smaller picture
instead of the real/whole picture on life. This lifestyle is not far
from the vanilla world except for the kinks. You still have to have
love, understanding, compassion, trust, faithfulness, and also loyalty.
If you don't have all of those, vanilla or lifestyle, the relationship
will not work at all.
6/29/2009 10:32:34 AM
Follow the link to RSVP for the July Lorain County Kinksters Munch! If you have ... please make sure to RSVP to that event
http://.com/events/3403
Also if you haven't joined our Yahoo! Group yet.... do so now for the most up to date notices!
I just wanted to give everyone who showed up to the first official Lorain County Kinksters Group munch a HUGE thanks! I think it turned out great and we all had a blast from what I gathered.
I had a blast meeting all of you and being able to finally put live faces, voices and personalities to the user names and emails of everyone!
Thank you to everyone who brought food, chips, drinks etc.... Everything was delicious....
I can't wait too meet up with everyone again and hopefully those who didn't get to attend because of it being father's day will be there
next month. Stay tuned for a date, time and location for next month's
get together. Hopefully next month's is going to be a regular
meeting/munch location. Though I think having outdoor munches in the summer is a great opportunity. I think we were a lot more relaxed and able to discuss a lot more without the worry of anyone eavesdropping in on conversations.
Thanks a lot for the great day!
Katyana
6/13/2009 12:57:24 PM
Description:Fellow Kinksters good news, Lorain County,Ohio kinksters.
This is just a reminder for those in the Lorain, Huron, Cuyahoga and
anywhere else who would love to join us for our first official Munch in
Lorain County.
The date for the first official munch for this group is set!!!
ThirdWatchCop and I will provide the following for the group, hot
dogs, hamburgers, chips,pretzels, buns(non human kind) and the
condiments.
We ask that you as munch going fans provide a covered dish to share, and what ever beverage you want to drink. Please as this is in the
Metro parks there is NO alcohol.
There is also going to be NO fetish wear going to be permitted. This is a very vanilla area and we need to respect everyone!
We will probably have activities to do like Volleyball net or
something. ThirdWatch and I discussed maybe subs vs Dom Volleyball
game! Sounds interesting...
We worked hard to get this group set up and would love to see a good turnout so we can build a good solid base and expand our membership.
Please RSVP to Katyana or ThirdWatchCop to let us know of a side dish or dessert you will be bringing with you that way we can make sure we don't have 10 sides of potato salad...lol.
We are seriously pumped about this group. Thanks see you all there
5/18/2009 11:03:11 PM
I'm going to say this once and for all! LEARN HOW TO READ BEFORE FUCKING MESSAGING ME!
I don't know what the deal is idiots who want to assume that because I go to college that my Lorain County Kinksters is solely for the college. No where in my groups, posts, or in my journals does it say anything about the college I go to and that it's solely for people that go to that college! If you have a problem with reading shit....stay away!
I'm so sick of submissives and Dominants alike who can't read profiles! I'm very close to removing my pictures and seeing how many people will continue to message me with "OMG you are so beautiful, can I worship you and please you in every way possible?" Stop looking at my pictures and READ my damn profile and you might actually learn something about me! Learn about what I want and what I'm looking for or NOT looking for!
Nothing is going to help any of you boys (subs and dominants included) get closer to me since you obviously have a problem with having intelligent conversation with a female!
5/12/2009 6:17:34 AM
I'm in the process of starting a Lorain County Group for the lifestyle. I have a
yahoo group started already the link for the yahoo group is
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/loraincountykinksters/. It's still a work in progress so have patience with me while I set it up.
I'm looking forward to seeing more people in the group soon!!!!
5/8/2009 3:55:28 PM
I have a account and I'm very interested in finding new friends in the North East Ohio area....more particularly in the Lorain/Elyria/Amherst/Avon areas. My username on Fet is the same as on here. Also if you are in the Lorain/Elyria/Amherst/Avon area....I have a yahoo and group that I recently started. there is more information on about it.
4/15/2009 7:24:26 PM
You know what I find hilarious? boys who are more than sluts but are out right ridiculous and over flirtaous and wanting to visit Domme's than back out with a sorry ass excuse, than less than 2 days later he's "collared" after he begged to be mine for over 3 months.
It's funny to me. And some boys wonder why I refuse to just collar any boy! There are more fakes out there than real...and I'm in this for the long run not some fly by day relationship.
4/5/2009 2:59:40 PM
HA! I was told I was a dysfunctional wannabe because I didn't want to meet with a 50+ yr old man who messaged me 5-6 times a day in stalking ways! Hmmmm he is so desperate that I'm dysfunctional. WOW...lol
Come on...get over yourself...your a 50+ yr old male who has NEVER been collared...and who also probably just wanted to try and get your rocks off by talking to a 27 yr old female.
3/29/2009 12:14:07 PM
I would like to know what makes a "Real Domme"! I've been told that I'm not a real Domme because I'm a "kid" too young to know the lifestyle, haven't experienced life enough, etc.
I have compassion, care, love, and decency to give a crap about the boy/girl that I collar or put into consideration. If that makes me a "fake" Domme fine....I'll take the title...but it also makes me human...the Domme's who don't give a shit about their sub/slave are going to be in for a rude awakening when their sub/slave search for a Domme like me who actually gives a shit about them!
I'm sick of the Domme's or so called Domme's who feel the need to let out stupid information about subs who are not their own....dammit let their Owners find out the truth and deal with it themselves...stop being petty childish tattle tails! GROW UP! and don't label it as learning through discussion...that's bullshit...
3/24/2009 4:46:14 PM
To the old hag that seems to be unable to keep herself out of Mine and My boys life:
I don't know how many times I have to tell you...shut your damn trap when it comes to roger! you have no clue what-so-ever the relationship Me and My boy have! Start shit all you want....it's not going to work....your jealous and trying to be vindictive...it can stop now....act your age and get over the fact that he's happy with me and that's that! I don't have to demand to know his moves or the things he does or doesn't do. he tells me freely....not having to tell a boy to tell you about his day is the power....not forcing things out of him....get off your miniature power trip....and stay the hell out of roger's and Mine business....it's none of yours!
3/24/2009 4:44:26 AM
Last night I had the wonderful opportunity to learn that a boy I had been talking to who claimed they didn't want collared online or long distance got collared by someone guess what, long distance. After wanting to come visit with me for a couple days, supposedly.
I'm getting sick of the bullshit. I'm stressing one more time. If you are NOT REAL, stay away from me. My feelings will not get hurt, but you will end up losing one hell of a friend if you piss me off by lying and keeping important things like being considered or having a training collar. And I also don't understand at all how you can be "surprised" when a Domme collars you. Like you didn't know you were talking to her and all of a sudden she just walked up to you and said "you, I want you to wear my collar!" WTF....
After being fucked over once by a sub, I'm more hesitant and choosey about who I even consider now. The two boys I have under consideration did not get there over night...but they can be dropped quick as anything if I catch them lying. I don't tolerate lying at all!!!!!
3/14/2009 8:05:29 PM
I hope soon that this lifestyle proves that there are honest people in it. I don't know how many times I have to stress this....Come correct or keep moving. I'm not going to allow another try and ruin my happiness.
3/4/2009 3:13:16 PM
Oh to many times do we get close someone who either seems so perfect or is so perfect for us.
In the past month I have had to collar than release a sub who seemed so perfect....but in all actuality was so wrong for me.
This past week I thought I just might have found another slave...(which I was taking my time with) that had the potential in being the one. Come to find out he refused to leave a few things behind to continue on a lifestyle he voiced to me was something he always desired but refused to let go of those things.
It bothers me knowing that I give up time and energy to learn these subs/slaves and for them to learn me. But they can't give up anything. I've also come to realize there are far more players than doers.
Please be advised that if you are going to approach me, approach with sincerity, honesty, trust, understanding, compassion, most of the same likes and dislikes, and the ability to give as much time as I will. No longer am I going to waste time on someone who can't give me the time I give them.
