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GaryQ
Hello! My name is Kappuke-ki (ca-pook-ay-key), the story behind the name is simple; it's Japanese for cupcake, I love cupcakes and the Japanese word for my love is much more attractive than the German equivalent (tassekuchen). My real name can perhaps be sought after once I have gotten to know you better, but for now I prefer to enjoy the bounty of anonymity that the interwebs affords me. I have been interested in bdsm for about 2 years now, on some level I have always recognized myself as being of a submissive nature. This has come into play in my sexual relationships, where I believe it belongs wholeheartedly. I want somebody to show me the ropes, the more "advanced" ropes that is. I want to chat with someone, preferably an older gentleman or woman, who can teach me about the things which I am ignorant of. I am basically a complete novice beyond kinky sexual pastimes and I'd like to further my knowledge. I'm not very outgoing, although I'd like to think I'm interesting, I'm fairly shy and quiet. I'm also nobody's "dream girl", but I'm a very willing pupil and I at least have a modicum of intelligence. Insatiable curiosity and never ending questions are my trademarks. I can come across condescending and blunt but honestly I'm painfully shy and very sweet beneath it all. Ideally I'm looking for someone who is over 35, patient and very firm. If I'm not kept firmly in hand I tend to wander off into my own little world, a consequence of not being challenged enough. I do not answer to "girl" any variations thereof, demeaning names and appellations like "sweetie", "honey" or "darling" if I believe you intend to be condescending. I deserve your respect, I am your equal in most things and I hate being talked down to. I don't believe that being submissive makes me less deserving of decency than any Dom out there. I have blocked messages from people overseas, but other than that my lines of communication shall always remain open. All I ask is you send more a couple of words or a few lines in a message."Hello want to chat?" is a sign to me that you copy and paste the same message to any girl who even briefly catches your eye. Poorly punctuated messages will probably not be answered, same with spelling. Call me a grammar Nazi, it's a personal peeve. If I haven't scared you away by now I will be amazed!! XoXo
soliloquoy
 
 Age: 35
 Novelty, Ohio