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| I seek a stable man with a keen intellect and sharp wit... a handsome man with sexy eyes and kissable lips... a strong man who can bend to My will without breaking... a man who doesn't stop being a man simply because he is on his knees... KR
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In all honesty, what I want is something positive to be brought to my life. My life is good and I simply don't have time for anything negative. I want a foundation of friendship acquired by being real (being honest with others as well as oneself). If the chemistry is right, the timing right, and the journey right, I imagine I am quite capable of sharing on a deeper level. If things progressed to that deeper level, I would expect absolute allegiance. It might be about sexual service, but it definitely had better be about treating me the way I wish to be treated. Men who realize that what they receive from a woman is in direct proportion to what they themselves expend would fare much better than those who do not. I will say that I am not looking for a scene partner or a play partner, but I would hope that there would be the possibility of physical intimacy as well as emotional...
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I've learned that the terminology can be confusing and lead to miscommunication. I began my journey here listed as a Dominant woman. This is part of my nature. I was born Dominant. But there was "more" to my self perspective than that word alone seemed to cover. For one, during masturbation I would fantasize about rough sex, getting spanked, and even light bondage. I asked myself if this meant I had a submissive streak. Secondly, I was sometimes turned off by the emails I received from submissive men who seemed too weak for my tastes. Having had no real life experience and just embarking upon my journey after more than a year of celibacy, I took my time trying to figure out exactly what it is I am doing here. I changed my preference to Switch for awhile, but that didn't work, because I am not a submissive woman-- despite my desire to be occasionally physically dominated. And there's the rub! Inexperienced, yes, and lacking knowledge, yes, but still very much the dominant. Well, what's a poor girl to do? I began to analyze those things which I saw in others' postings to determine what my most basic and sincere desires were as well as those things which were repulsive or, at the very least, turn-offs for me. This is still a work in progress for me. I know I have not replied to numerous e-mails and I apologize if that seemed rude. But I have to find my own footing before I attempt to negotiate a pathway with someone else. More to come... |
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Other preferences:
I am not interested in poly relationships, knives or electrical play, cross dressing, infanitilism or diaper play. This is not to say I am not interested in discussing interests outside of My own in an intelligent and thoughtful manner; however, I must confess I have no desire to engage in any of these activities. KR |
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As I consider the diversity of those who are initiating contact, I realize that there are certain things which matter more than others. Of course, within the context of a platonic friendship, I welcome any and all demographics and preferences; however, in the quest for a partner, I have certain desires which must be met. Location: I am not interested in maintaining a long distance relationship. In the event I find someone who fits into My life, I expect to be serviced frequently and in real life, so that preference will not change. Sexual Orientation: I am only interested in single, heterosexual, monogomous men. Age: I'm not so strict about age, but rather how well someone carries his age. If you are 30 years old and a couch potato, you will fare less well than a 50 year old who is active. Appearance: I must find you attractive. Generally, nice smiles/teeth and nice skin are what I notice first. Grooming and hygiene can not be overemphasized as prerequisite to any notions of romance. I prefer men who are at least several inches taller than Me--5'10" is probably the shortest unless you have a powerhouse intellect and personality. Please attach your photo with each correspondence. Education: I don't expect you to be a genius, but communication skills are paramount to paramour. Career: This is only of importance in that I expect My partner to be self-sufficient and self-supportive. In fact, there will be times when having your finances in order will be crucial to your ability to prove your devotion because I expect to be courted well. Besides, life is much more enjoyable if you are slave to your Woman than if you are slave to your employer :) These are just a few initial thoughts. I will post more when I am ready.
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Another day has come and gone. I finished painting the bottom part of the china cabinet a color called "quaking grass" which causes Me to think of Puritans smoking weed..., but I digress. Tomorrow I will strip the top of the cabinet and paint it to match. I'm no pro, but am proud of how things are turning out. Am thinking to Myself that I'd like to have someone to talk to as I work or to help with the painting. I'd also fancy a hug now and then which is not to say I'm not also thinking about rapturous sex. KR |
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Chatted for the first time, Met some cool people--they know who they are :) Had a few laughs and thank them for it.
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I've spent the past few weeks scanning the message boards and becoming familiar with the site. I don't spent a lot of time online--the internet is more of a hobby with Me, not a lifestyle. As for the BDSM lifestyle, I am in the beginning stages of discovering how to make it meaningful for Me. I've been celibate for one year and have been on just a handful of dates during that time. In only one instance did I find Myself on more than the first date. I have a great life. I welcome people into My life who will bring something positive and have no problem whatsoever saying goodbye to those who don't. I've been told I'm "challenging" mentally. I'm a little kinky and a little crazy. I'm a registered nurse with no serious baggage, financially or emotionally. For a man to be of interest to Me, he would have to be emotionally mature and financially stable. This man would also have to be as adept sensually as he might be sexually. Please have your life together. Mine is in order. I'm not opposed to having discussions with people online from time to time, but please establish a rapport before you offer to suck My toes. Adoring Me is not enough. I want your submission to be in the name of Love, not in the name of your need to play. Save Me the time and yourself the humiliation. I know what I want and deserve. |
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