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KandiKarnage

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Hvymetalhippy
I am a polyamorous, pansexual Alpha female.

I am, first and foremost, Primal. I am nobody's pet, and I do sometimes bite first and ask questions later.

I am also a remarkable combination of other things. Mostly, I am a dominant person, but I also have an intense desire to submit to the right Dominant male. No, this does not mean that I am so desperate for male attention that I will overlook my standards for any male that crooks his finger at me. I am still the Alpha bitch of my pack, and my responsibility to my position comes first. I may tentatively call myself a switch, but I am a VERY Domme-leaning switch.

I am only interested in speaking with people that can form sentences. If I can't understand half of your message, there is no point in attempting to converse. I am also only interested in building relationships. All of my relationships begin as a platonic exploration of each other to determine if we click. Many never progress past the platonic stage, and I am comfortable with that. I do not engage in random play with strangers (and offering me money is not going to change that), nor am I interested in flings or hook ups. I am not going to Skype with you. "Polyamorous" does not mean I want to fuck everything that shows an interest.

Please be aware that violating my consent by attempting to push my boundaries will get you nowhere. When I say something, I mean it.

A note on etiquette: To use an appellation without prior recognition is disrespectful, so don't. And if you suddenly feel the need to call me by pet names...don't.

What am I looking for? Well, when I say I am looking for Dominant males, I don't mean jumped up little punks who think they're tough. I mean strong, respectful, intelligent and caring role models. Males who take charge of their lives. A leader, not a tyrant.
When I say that I am looking for submissives, I do NOT under ANY circumstances mean slaves. Slaves do not fit in with the pack AT ALL.
In addition, I do not participate in humiliation. I will not humiliate you, nor will I allow you to attempt to humiliate me, it is a hard limit. If that is your kink, we are NOT compatible.

4/4/2015 11:56:44 PM
Instead of trying to pretend to be what I am looking for, you might as well simply accept that we are not compatible.

I am not stupid.  I can tell the difference between an actual primal and a Google primal.

Clearly, you are not thinking this through.

I am not going to be jumping into bed with someone I don't know...how long do you think you can keep up the charade?  Not long enough, I guarantee it.
2/14/2015 11:28:46 PM
Want me to actually engage in conversation with you?

Try sending a message that consists of more than the generic greeting, or a single random word.  Give me something to engage, here.

If you send me a one word message, you'll get a one word response...if you get a response at all.

Don't be boring.  Set yourself apart from the plethora of generic and/or irrelevant messages I receive on a daily basis.

If you can't think of anything interesting to say about yourself, ask a question.  Pose a discussion topic.  Give me SOMETHING to move forward with.
1/31/2015 7:27:18 PM
Yes, I changed my orientation to "switch".  Why?

Well, because it's technically a little closer to the truth.  While I am primarily Dominant, I am not completely Dominant (given that there are specific circumstances under which I will give my submission to the correct Dominant).

This certainly does not mean that I want my inbox filled with aggro little punks blabbing their Domly superiority at me.  Submission is EARNED! 
1/28/2015 5:01:57 PM
Money?  You think I want your money?  HA!

Bitch, I couldn't care less about your money.  Your pathetic material wealth makes me laugh, and your even more pathetic attempts to woo me by waving it in my face makes me vomit.

Your sudden butthurt over being summarily rejected for being an idiot, however, amuses me.

Run along with your pocket change, little pup. 
DominatrixSweet
 
 Age: 34
 Arlington, Washington