Been flying under the radar for several years and have to decided to have more of a public image again. Looking to reconnect with friends from around the country as well as search for that one special slave.
I have been involved in the life for 20 years and originally trained in the BDSM community of San Francisco in the early 90's. While being fully aware of my old guard legacy, I have embraced new dynamics and ideas as I have continued to evolve and grow as a Dominant.
Please understand that I am not interested in casual play, or a casual play partner. Ideally I am looking for a Master/slave total power exchange long term relationship. For me casual play does not fulfill my need of intensity and connection that can be achieved within a M/s TPE relationship. My focus tends to lean towards the mental side of power exchange, and the dynamics that can be created when exploring all areas of the mind. I have interests within the life that are very broad, and I need someone who feels comfortable knowing that within this spectrum I can be both sadistic and loving. You could say I am a dichotomy.
Do not let my boy next door looks fool you. I am a wolf in sheep's clothing. Sweet and innocent looking on the outside, and dark and twisted on the inside. I love my kinks, perversions, and BDSM pursuits. I also love the sexual aspect of power exchange. I am very sexual and looking for someone with a very high libido so we can concentrate on the sexual chemistry between us.
I am 42 years old, a business owner, and take joy in my business endeavors. Presently business takes me to the Dallas area once a month. Capitalism is fine, but for me money is a tool to create the freedom to live life the way I choose, not for acquiring material things. I love to travel, am fun loving, outgoing, and spontaneous. I have an eye for architecture, design, and fashion. I enjoy anything outdoors, and going for long walks. In the summer you will find me on the river in a canoe, out on the lake, or hopefully at the beach. I like fine dining and listening to live music. I can be passionate, and yes once in a great while even romantic in my own way. Shhhh don't tell anyone about that or I will have to turn in my Dom card! LOL... I also enjoy watching movies and reading. In the winter there is a good chance you will catch me watching football. One of my greatest pleasures in life is having a intelligent conversation and debate. I have a constant thirst for knowledge and expanding my mind to the possibilities of what life offers.
I believe in a balance between BDSM pursuits and other life endeavors. But make no mistake the power exchange is a constant. I am looking to make a connection with one special slave who understands how powerful the mental side of power exchange can be. And that without the mental aspect it diminishes the impact of all activities. You have a personality that is naturally submissive in a relationship, and your wanting to please is inherent, and your need to serve innate. You crave the control the right Master can have over you, and the force the right placed words can have coming from his mouth. You should understand the contradiction of having morals, values, and being grounded, while having the capacity to explore all the wonderful dark, sinful things that BDSM has to offer. You want the intensity and the connection that can be created within a M/s relationship. A relationship built on respect, communication, and trust. You have a desire to be understood and accepted for who you are. You want your need of being owned and your active sexuality to be embraced, not judged. You appreciate a Dom who makes you want to meld into his world of authority and control. Our world and life together can be many things, including do I dare say fun? Yes fun! I love to laugh and find humor in many things.
I am not going to make a laundry list of what BDSM activities I enjoy, but I am happy to discuss my preferences in private. I do not want to get caught up in semantics and labels in a profile, but my tastes are wide and varied as yours should be. If you are interested in learning more about me, the possibility of serving me, and the amazing life we could have together please send an email with a photo attached.
I understand that for some this life can be a wonderful idealized fantasy. I hold no contempt for those wishing to only live in that realm, but for me this is reality and I am only wanting to hear from those who wish to live in reality as well.
~Kamen
