I was told that I was trashy for writing a BDSM story. I have been told that I was perverted or kinky. I have been called a sexual deviant. All of these things by people that supposedly cared for me.

How deviant is it really? Women want a guy to respect them for who they are and the content of their brains and the quality of their work. They want a guy to be tender, gentle, sensitive and caring. That is what many of them say anyway.

Most of us guys have been brought up to believe all this stuff that we have heard women say since we were small boys. We try to be good boys and later good men. However, we are always fighting our natural instincts.

When we lay our eyes on a woman, we are not seeing your brain. We are not respecting you for the content of your character, we are somewhere thinking in the back of our head "I would fuck her!"

You are the object of our desires, but you try to pretend you don't want to be. You say "love me for my brain." However, it wasn't your brain you were thinking of when you put on the dress that shows the cleavage to your ample breasts. It is not your character that you want me to pay attention to, when you wear a skirt that shows that much leg.

We learn that you can think it but don't say it or do it. The guys that are good with the chicks are the ones that can act like they don't see women as sexual objects the best.

My opininon is that we are turning young men into big old pussies with this line of thinking!

So you really have a problem being the absolute thing that I live to see, hold, and wrap my naked body around?

No matter what technilogical advances we make. No matter what gadgets and gizmos that we have. The touch of another human being is what we crave. People risks their marriges if they don't get it. Presidents risk their job over it. It is what we are hard wired to do!

The thing that vanilla women don't want to hear is that most guys have to restrain their natural instincts to be something you want them to be.

Well, I want to objectify you, make you mind me, and let you work me up to a sexual frenzy and show you the animalistic bond that we are supposed to have and not the fairy tale pretty image that you think that you want!

Any subs or slaves out there listening?

Kamchack (you can just call me Sir)

Only been on here a few days and it seems like the same people over and over. I guess if none of them are interested in what I am interested in, I either need to move on or wait for some new members.

It still amazes me that people in this lifestyle are so picky physically to actually say "no picture. no response." This is very much a mental connection and is deeper than physical attraction. I have slept with pretty vanilla people all my life and they have left me wanting. The brain has to be stimulated to take both the Dom and the sub to the place that vanilla cannot reach.

I will keep having encounters with my slave until someone realizes that you can play with more than one person and still have fun and be safe. It is ok..Realy it is. With each person you meet and care for in your life, your feeling add or multiply not subtract or divide.

I think what I am looking for is so straight forward and easy and has the possibility to be crazy fun, yet so few are interested.

A Dom is not to be owned. The subs may set the ultimate boundaries on the relationship, but they should not try to own the Dom.

Also, even though you may not be interested in what I have to offer, I can still enjoy the mental jousting of an e-mail now and then.

Take it easy and enjoy yourselves!

Kamchack