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Pan Male Dominant, 34,  Dunstable, United Kingdom
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Im a man who appreciates the simple things in life, I dont need a fast car, a massive mansion or a harem of brainless bimbos to make me happy. I enjoy live comedy, comic books, table top gaming, video games, whiskey, camping and a few other things. I always strive to give things 100 of my effort, be that in the of my day job, relationships and even my hobbies.

I found BDSM for myself when I turned 17, it was an article about petplay in a magazine called Bizarre. It felt it call to me, and I fell deep into the rabbit hole of perversion, hedonism and depravity. Now 17 years later, I have found my sweet spot of kinks and fetishes, I know I love the feelings of power and control, I love seeing a submissive who takes pride in the service they give willingly. I have a massive soft spot for dehumanization kinks such as pet play, ification and bimbofication. I also love dishing out humiliation and degradation, the psychological aspect of BDSM is fascinating, transcending the simple pleasures of the flesh and opening up the theatre of the mind to a wealth of sensations, thoughts and feelings, which in turn empowers and evolves what the flesh provides. A little pompous sounding I know, but it was the best way I could describe how I feel.
I am a 34 year old guy who has reached the point in his life where I want someone to settle down with, both as Dominant submissive as well as romantically. Im not going to bore you with a list of fetishes and bravado about how I am a True Dominant, because I dont ascribe to the silly notion that there is a perfectly correct way for two individuals to engage in Ds l, and I dont believe that line actually works on anyone who isnt a complete beginner. What I will tell you though, is that I am looking for the right submissive for me, someone who wants to explore what the highs and lows of the relationship could be and will work with me to make it a reality. Ideally, I believe youll be younger than myself, be intelligent, have a good sense of self, unattached, have hobbies and interests which make you happy, be service based as a submissive, not a spineless doormat and looking for someone to settle down with rather than merely settling. Im not so short sighted to make all of these a complete list if hard requirements, as that may unintentionally exclude a person who is entirely perfect for me in a way in which I didnt originally consider.











 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 5' 10"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive female

Sub / Slave Male

A Poly Household

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3/15/2022 5:04:24 PM

Okay, so a quick note, I am super not interested in being called Sir, Master, Daddy or whatever else you may think I like, because you're wrong, those honorific are for those I have relationships with.

If you're messaging me out of the blue, take time to actually write something, because I'm sick if frustratingly short messages which don't advance a conversation, it is annoying and causes me to loose interest.

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