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Update: I know, I know, I've been away from this site for quite some time. I'm back though.
Note: In case you might be curious about my name, it was created back when I still resided in Kansas, I haven't seen much reason to bother making a whole new account.
Another Note: After reading this, you may be under the assumption I have submissive tendencies. I really can't argue that case, and as such, perhaps a switch may be more right for me. We shall see...
I am actively seeking a full-time submissive female, in other words, an LTR. I'm not looking for a slave or 'slut', just a submissive kind of woman. In truth, I'm fairly new to the lifestyle, so I will be learning as well. However, here is what I am looking for as well as what kind of person I am.
I'm looking for honesty, willingness, and total trust. I am one who respects the opinions of others. I enjoy good in-depth conversations, and respect point-blank honesty. There it is, honesty and intelligence, two things that I tend to place a high value on. I can see a pleasant scene of me and my submissive, each with our respective books, in front of a nicely burning fireplace... Ah yes, I love to read.
An odd fact, I tend to model myself after a childhood idol of mine, Sherlock Holmes. Ok, so he was a fictional character, but he was suave, intelligent, witty, charming, altogether the perfect gentleman... In public anyways. I'm the kind of person people tend to come to with their problems.
I don't give out my heart easily, it takes a lot for me to call someone friend. Once I can call you my friend, however, I will stand up for you and beside you regardless of danger or hardship.
Understand, I tend to be a timid sort of personality. No, I am certainly not a pushover, but I have a gentle hand. Don't misunderstand, if a firm hand is needed I am not afraid to exert my dominance, but any relationship(even such as this kind) needs to be handled with love.
Love, now there's a concept that tends to be lost on people these days. Of course, I will admit that I am a pessimist, yet at the same time I believe in things like undying love, childrens tales, fairy-tale endings. Yea, I probably sound odd, but this is who I am.
I am understanding, nobody is perfect, and certain emotions will rise. You can always have my word that my work will never play a part in the home, and I will never strike in anger or frustration. If you have problems, you can always confide in me. If nothing else, it is my duty as the dominate to protect you. Is there the perfect person for me out there somewhere? I doubt it, but perhaps we shall see.
I am not a heavy-handed master, I enjoy sensuality. I like deep conversations(I mentioned that before), going out to nice places, and having my ears stroked, among other things. Heh.
Let us be clear, I will say again right now, I am looking for a submissive, not a slave. To clarify for you people that may not know, a submissive is a partner, whose opinions and desires count as much as the dominant. It is a choice for a lifestyle that is separate from the normal life. A slave gives up all freedom, all choice to his/her master. This person has no life separate from their lifestyle choice. At least, that is my humble opinion.
I've had people describe me of having what is known as a 'white knight' complex. What does this mean? Well, I have this odd tendency to be the hero, the gentleman, the brotherly type of guy. To many, this tends to read as "I'll be your brother, your best friend, your councillor, you can always talk to me". True enough I suppose, but make no mistake, to my submissive I am surely dominate. I respect you for who you are, and I respect your opinions, but I will be given my respect as well. A person I know once told me, "I want my submissive to be dominate to everyone, save myself." Ditto.
Any good master knows that his submissives willingness and enjoyment show how good a job he is doing. If he is happy and his sub is not, then he is not doing right by her and needs to communicate more. A good master should take pleasure in the happiness of his sub, and take pride in his performance and duties.
My goals and aspirations? I'm currently going to collage. My long-term goal is to open up my own wildlife rehabilitation center someday, yes, I am an animal-lover. I play piano, though I've probably gotten rusty as of late. I love to sing, though I'm terrible, but that's never stopped me.
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