Collarspace.com

I suppose, more than anything else, I'm looking for more of a mentor (even if it's cyber-only) where D/s is concerned.

I am married (with 3 children) to a straight male in whom I've been trying to encourage Dom characteristics, but it's been slow going.  Unfortunately, it's like topping from the bottom often.

He seems to enjoy using the mild stuff (restraints, blindfolds, hair pulling, soft spanking, regular anal, etc...) but seems a bit put-off with collar/leash, biting, anything that leaves a mark/bruise, many toys, and so on.

Anyway, about me personally in real life, I:

*Work in the medical field and write fiction
*Read constantly (fantasy/science fiction/horror/erotica/romance/occasionally mysteries) 
*Work out almost daily
*Grew up in CA but was transplanted to KS where I feel pretty isolated
*Keep a regular zoo of animals (everything from horses to pythons)
*Play World of Warcraft online way too much
Marty304
 
 Age: 41
 Phoenix, Arizona