Are you out there? My Perfect man? I am naturally dominant. I need you to be naturally submissive. Someone with your own mind and a good sense of humor. Someone I don't have to force into this dynamic. I need you to choose this, to choose me. Accept me as I am and I will love you unconditionally. If you are asking for a way out before we even have a conversation, then you're not for me. I know I'm not perfect. I'm a big gal with flaws. I smoke (not cigarettes). I'm 35 and I still want kids. I have many people in my life who look to me. One of the many reasons you will need to come to me. 

There are way too many selfish subs on this site! If you contact me, and all you want to talk about are the sex acts I might do to you, you're selfish! I'm not here to cyber, or give you material to jack off with! I'm looking for an actual relationship. I want to get to know a possible sub, so I know I'm not wasting my time. Don't tell me you want to get to know me, then only ask me for pictures! THAT'S COMPLETELY RUDE! If you contact me, you had better speak with RESPECT!

I enjoy a sub with a personality, one that is fun to be around and can assure that I'll always have a good time with. I also enjoy a smart sub. Too bad these traits are so hard to find. Most the subs that have contacted me can't come up with a single thought on their own. I want a SUBMISSIVE MAN, not a drooling fool.