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Jzchef69

Big teddy bear. Looking for a spiritual, strong, assertive woman. Looking for someone to spend time with, not in front of the idiot Box, someone to do things with, share things with. I am looking for the one. The one person that i am supposed to be with. I am not going to say that I am willing to do anything, I do have limits and I know what I want. But I will say that i am willing to try almost anything once, and if I don't like it, then that's that. Looks aren't as important as what is on the inside, I need a woman that I can talk to about anything and everything. Someone who is adventurous and open to new things. I am not on here to find sex or instant gratification. I am searching for someone to experience things with, communicate with. If in fact the right woman is out there, I plan to show them respect, first and foremost, friendship, shower them with all of the attention that I can, time permitting. I am not going to quit my job or anything that drastic. But I promise that the time spent will be well worth it.
11/29/2012 4:43:56 PM
Agonizing over the possibility of putting my dog up for adoption. Ok peeps, i dont do this often, writing in the journal that is. I could go on facebook, tweet, whatever. However i seem to get the best advice from like minded people. So here is the dilemma. I have a seven yr old dog that i love, and am never home due to my hectic work schedule. She is a good dog, she has been left alone for up to 18 hours without so much as an accident. Dont get me wrong, she has had accidents, about 3 that i can recall in the last yr since moving back to Jersey. I just dont think it is fair to her to leave her cooped up for long hours like that in a small apartment. On the other hand, selfishly i want to keep her because she is such a good dog. Any advice in this matter would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
9/23/2012 7:14:46 PM
THere is something that has been bugging me for a couple of days now. A few days ago, a Dom randomly looked at my profile and sent me a message saying, rent a cop lol. I responded back saying no its a fireman's uniform. Her response to this was, and I quote, "sorry to hear that". At first I didn't think much of it. I just went on with my daily life, but then I went back and read it again, and something struck a chord. It probably shouldn't have, but it did. I should have just dismissed it, and took it from the source, the source being someone that clearly has an overinflated opinion of herself that apparently doesn't need anyone else, and is clearly ignorant. My point being, myself and most of the fireman and cops that I know, served in the military, to protect our freedoms, yours, mine, ours. So that many of you doms out there can make a living, with all of the tributes and gifts that guys like us cops, fireman and even rent a cops are willing to make. We are here on this planet to help others, not hurt them. Maybe in her tiny little mind she figured, big deal, fireman. She doesn't know me from Adam and yet she made a statement like that. Don't get me wrong, I know that there are a bunch of fakes, phonies and frauds on these sites and they will eventually get found out. But what about the ones that are out there protecting the community, donating their time to help others, don't they deserve a little respect? They are people out there making an honest living and supporting most of you femdoms out there. I am not saying that all doms are created equal, believe me, if I thought that we're the case, I would have already deleted my account. I just hope in my heart of hearts that there aren't many more out there that feel the same. Anyway, I have vented, and wish this person no ill will. I just hope that one of you other women out there can send her a clue.
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 Age: 20
 Oklahoma city, Oklahoma