Sorry to everyone who reads my journal I know its been a while. I would like to talk about confidence and the things that are possible when you just believe you are capable of getting it done. I am a religious man so I also understand that through my faith all things are possible. Confidence it not something we are born with we acquire it through our day to day trials. Recently I met someone who had true confidence in herself. I was almost outside myself just listening to her talk. I was impressed on a level that most girls don't achieve with me just having a good conversation with her. I am not one to fall head over heals for someone by just talking to them, but I give credit where credit is due.

To all of those out there in boston, the surronding area's, travelers to the marathon, and those who have friends or family there. My heart goes out to you. Just know me and mine are praying for you.

Today instead of a simple lesson I want to talk about something that people have been told since they were little kids, but have issues following mostly. Honesty: really have we fallen so far as people that our word is so easily broken. I understand not wanting to hurt a persons feelings there is a way to tell them or talk to them as to prevent that mostly.  Be truthful out there subs/doms how can you actually know and trust each other if you can't even tell each other the truth. I am not saying this is easy, all I am asking is try.

Today's lesson is about: Trust. The Dom/Sub relationship can be built on many things. The key to all of this is trust. Unfortunately you would think this would be the corner stone of the whole process; this however is not always the case. If a Sub does not trust her/his Dom they can not fully submit to them. No matter how hard you try Sub's how will you ever let go fully if you don't trust the person to have your needs in mind? I understand trust is not an easy thing to give for some and for others it is, but it is required if you are to have a good experience in this lifestyle. A lack of trust will frustrate both parties involved. From a Dom's perspective how can we try things with you, if we don't think you trust us enough not to hurt you or take care of you? I hope you folks out there think hard on this one. Truly ask yourselves if you trust your partner, and if you don't talk to them about it let them know how you feel.

Today's lesson is on safety. A scene can be very demanding both mentally and physically. I would suggest that any dom's out there insure they have taken at least one first-aid and CPR course before conducting any scene's. Murphy's law should always be in full affect when conducting a scene. 1"Nothing is as easy as it looks." 2. "Everything takes longer than you think." and finally 3"If anything can go wrong it will." Dom's always keep this in the back of your heads. Accidents happen even with the enforced use of safewords sometimes a sub will want to push themselves even further or you as the dom can get carried away, so if you start getting a gut feeling be ready to stop the scene there. Play is fun, but it isn't worth someone's health or life.

Alright folks today's lesson is: Topping from the bottom. I don't know about everyone but this is something that get's my blood boiling a bit. I don't understand why some of you submissives feel the need to do this. We as Dominant's are facilitators our job is to make sure you have a healthy, safe, and stress (This more or less means without having to worry things will get out of control) free experience during a scene. We try our best to fulfill your desires but still some of you can not except what it means to truly submit. Half-assing anything usually takes enjoyment or the benefits out of doing it. So please please be honest with us and let us fulfill not only your desires but our own in seeing you reach the heights of ecstasy.