This is all new to me. I have no experience what so ever in the BDSM lifestyle. My curiosity and knowing that I want someone to have total control over me sexually brought me here. Not only do I seek someone who can fullfill my fantasies though. I seek friendship, romance, possibly love with the right person. Honesty is a must!! If you can't speak the truth as I am doing now and always will then I'd rather not talk to you. Good communication, honesty, and openiness are the keys to being happy. If you can't offer all 3 then your not for me. We all have feelings. jobs, and lives outside the lifestyle so if you cant value me as a person as well as a submissive then please dont waste my time. I am not interested in one night stands, and casual play. Im looking for someone who can take me to that other level of fullfillment, someone who can help me to be the submissive I long to be, someone who can make me beg him to stop while at the same time begging him for more, someone who might or is willing to have a LTR. Since joining collarme, I have been talking with someone via internet, whom I meet from this site. Reading his profile had my juices flowing, and left me wanting to learn more, and wanting my fantasies to become reality. Who knows maybe he's the one?