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dazzzlinnn
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Hello.
I am an experienced Dom, having been involved in the lifestyle for 15 years, and having had several/many casual and serious D/s relationships. I am searching for a long-term, loving D/s relationship, but am also interested in an occasional to steady play partner. I'd like an intensely connected relationship, whether we spend a lot of time together physically or not. I am a sensual sadist who loves a strong, submissive masochist. Bi-sexual for My partner would be great. I love to laugh, love a smart, witty person, and think that good companionship with great D/s sex is Nirvana.
About Me: I am bright, fun, strong, well-educated, financially secure and very much the master of most all that I do. I am open, non-judgmental and accepting of most people's personal life choices. I am somewhat kinky but not very extreme. I enjoy a range of hobbies, including flying, sailing, photography, scuba/snorkeling, hiking/backpacking and many others. I love to travel, and have done so quite a bit (but want quite a bit more). I love good conversation and the clever/witty use of words. Most of all, I love to laugh!
On the lifestyle front: As I mentioned, I am a sensual sadist. I play safe/sane/consensually, and always have safewords; I always respect limits. I am particularly fond of adding pain to our sex, using My strong hands to hold, grip, pinch, pull to provide a range of sensations. I like bondage as restraint but not as ritual. I demand respect but do not demand extreme protocol, etc....I'd rather My submissive felt free to engage in fun conversation.
I am an exceptional lover, and enjoy a high sex drive. My partner should be both skilled and very responsive. Sensation sluts are appreciated...I'm one.
I am generally happy, enjoy My alone time and enjoy My own space, so, unless it is an M/s relationship, I am not looking to change My life to have someone in it 24/7. I want someone who is *very* important to Me and a central part of My life, but she will not be My only sexual partner for the rest of My life. Polyamory is the closest term for what I am describing, but, obviously, we all mean something different with that term. No matter what we might figure out between us, I expect it to be honest and will not tolerate anything else.
If you find yourself interested in this strong, alpha-male, we should talk. I will respond to all reasonable inquiries....that means more than "Hi".
Lastly: I don't smoke tobacco. If you smoke more than a little, then we are probably not going to work as more than occasional play partners. And, I am not particularly picky about appearance, but usually I can't get excited about someone who is 60 pounds overweight...sorry, but I have found that some women will have pictures that show them-self from their tits up, and you only discover that they are, um, "round" upon meeting them. Let's save each other fruitless emails and time. On the other hand, please don't let your self-consciousness rule you out; if you have pictures that depict you accurately, then please do let Me be the judge of My attraction...I don't need "thin" to find you attractive!!
I am "for real"; I suppose it's a waste of time to say, but if you are living a fantasy, but run like hell if it starts to become real, then please, pass me by. And if you live in Malaysia, etc, and think I am going to fund you coming by for a visit, it's a bad bet. Lastly, if you are from Nigeria and would like Me to know that I am entitled to $6M, if only I will give you My bank account numbers, SSN & mother's maiden name, please know that I already collected it, and if you would like to stop by in person, I'll give you your 10% fee and a handshake.
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Great Quote:
“When she's abandoned her moral center and teachings...when she's cast aside her facade of propriety and lady-like demeanor...when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure.....enticing from within this feral lioness...growling and scratching and biting...taking everything I dish out to her.....at that moment she is never more beautiful to me. ”
--Marquis de Sade
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I recently had a couple of women make an issue of Me self-applying "Sir" before My name when I signed My message to them. Here's what I wrote to one of them, who said that one has to earn such respect:
"I don't demand respect from people, but I expect mutual respect in dealing with all. I am polite without exception, unless someone has earned My scorn. The use of "Sir" in addressing men is a respect that I generally give to people in My vanilla life, and without exception in My lifestyle dealings with Doms. In lifestyle, it is a respectful title for men, just as "Mr" is a respectful title in non-lifestyle dealings. People don't need to earn My respect; one respects them until they show they don't deserve it. The fact that you would pointedly take such issue with My calling Myself Sir makes it clear to Me that you are not a person who I wish to know better."
To another, I added: "I show respect to *all* people from the outset, and withdraw it only if they earn that. Apparently, you don't feel that way."
If you have an issue with Me referring to Myself that way, then either you have a chip on your shoulder, or you are really not at all familiar with the Lifestyle.
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