A little over a year into this, it's been a lot of fun and I'm definitely looking foward to what is yet to come!

About me, personality wise I am pretty optimistic and have a small smart ass streak. I've always had that "problem"; it won't be going away just because I've discovered kink.

Of course rules and regulations help provide some order to life but generally I have a lot of fun living outside the lines.

On the lighter side, my sign is Aquarius and I like to drink wine in front of a fire while cuddled up on a cold winter's night...

What am I looking for?

Mental/intellectual chemistry is the most important thing to me. I think that the often used "capture the mind and the body will follow" is quite true.

Of course physical chemistry is important too and when combined with the mental chemistry it seems to create a magic spell.

Combine those with trust and you get the basis for submission. The feeling that the dominant complements your strengths and fills in the voids to build you up where you are weak.

I am optimistic that such unions exist, it is just a matter of the journey to find that person. :)