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promise to reply to every message with the same amount of effort and attention that was put into the original - please make that a good promise and not a threat...
I am bisexual, but am primarily interested in submitting to men or MtF trans. Though Im open to being pleasantly surprised by some wonderful, magical female dominant, Im really just looking for friends and hangout buddies with women.
Submissives *want* to submit - thats kinda the whole deal. If you are pleasant and non-threatening, its our natural desire to want to please you. All you have to do is not throw up red flags that you are a psycho by saying crazy ass things or generally acting gross or unstable. People dont automatically submit because you send a nutso overbearing crude email as your intro - and if they do, they are play acting. Be friendly and honest, and everything else just comes naturally.With established trust, my limits could fit on a post-it note, but the establishing trust thing is the important part. Submission is what I do, dont make it hard.
I am very much of the mindset that I derive pleasure by creating pleasure for others, so while I a have activities that I personally prefer, they arent any fun if the other person isnt enjoying it. Id rather do something I am meh about that someone else loves than my own favorites that someone is only half-hearted about. That said, I make a crappy pain slut
Im looking to serve an actual person in real life, but I do love to make online friends for vanilla or playful conversation. Im ok with pics if I lika ya but dont get your hopes up too much about camming.
Ds is part of my life. So is music. So is cooking. So is my job and my family and biking and photography and many other things. If Ds is how you define your life, if it is the sole distinguishing attribute of your lifestyle... well, that isnt much of a lifestyle. I seek real people - interesting, multi-faceted people - not people so enamored with a concept or fantasy that they have turned themselves into a 24-hour role playing stereotype.
All that said, ultimately I am looking for people that I find some sort of connection with. Once you figure that out, everything else kinda just takes care of itself. So make a connection, drop me a message, Im looking forward to it. So say hi, and if we click, it will happen in its own way (or your way, more to the point)
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