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I have been considering trying a submissive role for some time now, and have recently decided to start seeking such a role with a woman.
So, first off, a little bit of info on myself. I have been in the lifestyle for twelve years and a part of the local community for six. I am married to my wonderful wife of eleven years, but we are each seeking in BDSM are leading us down different paths. We have an open marriage and are polyamorous. I am a pretty geeky guy who enjoys games, movies, books, and the internet.
As a submissive, I see myself in more of a service role rather than that of a masochist. I feel that my talents and abilities could be very useful to the right Dominant.
Massage: I am told I have strong yet gentle hands, and I wish to pursue a formal education I massage therapy in the future.
Grooming: Bathing, shaving, brushing hair, but I may need more training in this.
Dressing: Putting on your clothes, lacing boots or corsets, etc.
Fetching and carrying: Need a drink or your things carried?
Cooking and Baking: I am a professional bread baker and have learned much over my years in a restaurant. (I can also get a discount and VIP treatment at restaurants within the Group)
Body-worship: Need to feel like a goddess? All bodies are beautiful.
Sexual satisfaction: I have been told that I am very skilled at oral, fingering, using toys, and fucking. I am open to being pegged for your satisfaction.
In the course of my submission, there are many activities I would be open too and willing to explore. I am curious about bondage and look forward to see if you can be creative with rope. I have a light pain tolerance and enjoy hair pulling, scratching, and light impact: I believe I could be trained to accept more with time. I am able to be lent out to your friends to preform services for them as well, as well as open to multiple sexual partners including other men. I also have an interest in being sexually submissive; be it orgasm control, denial, teasing, face-sitting, etc. I am willing to accept punishment, but only when earned and not as a part of normal play. I wish to make some one proud, not fail them.
I have identified several of my limits and even some of my weaknesses. I have no interest in feet, shoes, scat, blood (menstrual blood can be tolerated, but not blood from a wound), cutting, feminization , sissification, humiliation, degradation, chastity, face slapping, CBT,or monogamy. I know I am not very good at initiating communication. I do suffer from anxiety, and it makes contacting new people very difficult. It can also be difficult for me to ask for others time. I want to be told when we are getting together, it makes me feel wanted and controlled.
I am sure there are many things I have left out, but perhaps we can discuss them at a future time. I look forward to finding some one for either casual play, or a permanent partner.
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