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I want to make a very important note here-I almost never message anyone on here first. Why? Because there's a gazillion guys here (I'll even give them the benefit of the doubt that they're 'real') messaging women all. the. god. damn. time. This means that any message I send is merely a drop of water in the ocean. What's this boil down to? If you come across my profile, message me, or at least do 'view full profile' so I can see that you've looked at me, that will increase the likelihood of me taking the first significantly.
About my name-It (and my other commonly used internet handle for vanilla stuff) is essentially a way to remind myself of humility. I am just a guy, in the lifestyle I'm just a dominant guy, and in vanilla I'm just that guy. And there is nothing special in and of itself due to that.
I am not the titles I attribute to myself, it is my attributes that title me.
Another important bit-I am dating someone. There is a possibility of play (as in the whips and chains variety, not the nookie variety), but its only that, and its not what I'm here for (which, currently, is just more friends, can never have too many).
A bit of philosophy-'Self mastery is the source of all control.'-me. Before one can truly claim to master another, they must first be in control of themselves. This is a task I've completed long ago, and one I don't intend to give up on.
As far as my kinks go-First and foremost is 'control'. Everything else is secondary, pain, flogging, spanking, needles, uniforms and so on. I get off on the act of controlling another, and the trappings associated with that are secondary. As such I am a very flexible partner as it doesn't matter much to me if you prefer to be called names or spanked or bound or be turned into furniture.
About the rest of my life-I'm big on self improvement, exercise, learning, meeting new people. I try not to take life seriously, but the same isn't true of loyalty and responsibility, both of which I take very seriously.
Curious about something? Just ask.
What I'm here for-I am not here solely to find a mate. Finding a vanilla mate is difficult and expecting to find one who's appropriately kinky, matches your kinks etc. is even more difficult. If I happen to find someone that's great, but if not, its not a big deal. I'm here to connect with the people in the community as friends just as much if not more than the elusive relationship hunt.
As this has come up-If you'd like to contact me on , I go by the same name as here.
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