Rebekah (JudgeTenderly):

About me

To look at me in the mirror you would think i am the same i always have been- but i am not the same, “Officially” since November 2011, i have discovered this part of myself at the center of my being that makes me feel real and alive and today i feel even more infinite.

Let us start from the beginning, shall we? Please do not send me a friend request if we have never met. If we have met, a message would be nice, perhaps reminding me where and when we met. When messaging me it is appropriate to use correct grammar and language. Please spell words out, laziness is unattractive to me. Thank-you in advance.

For those who do not know, i am legally blind. My vision is 20/200 and uncorrectable. Because of this I cannot drive. i try to get to events via public transportation or a ride from a friend. If you see me in public you will need to actually approach me for me to see you. i am not being rude, i simply cannot see you. i do not let this get in the way of having a social life and having meaningful relationships with people. If you have questions about my vision, please ask. I thank-you in advance for understanding.

i can bottom to many, submit to few, but only surrender all that i am (heart, mind, body and soul) to one... Mistress Daisy.

PVZ helped inspire me to try and write what I’m looking for with the help of some of her words. i have found a Woman, Mistress Daisy, to whom i need to surrender to, not just like surrendering control but really needing to surrender. W/we have an emotional connection like no other. i respect and care about Her and she respects and cares about me in return. She has my best interests at heart and knows me better than i know myself because she knows me deeply, like nobody else does. She knows what makes me tick, what makes me wet and what makes me cry. She knows my darkest secrets that i’m too afraid to tell anyone else because i can trust her enough to see me at my most vulnerable, weakest points in my life and She is showing me how being vulnerable will make me strong in the end. She is breaking me and building me up into a better version of myself. She is pushing me out of my comfort zone and can and will embarrass me and punish me if needed. Mistress Daisy is a real woman with good days and bad days. A woman with passions and goals. And a woman who loves me for me and i love Her for Her. i don't want the fantasy... i want a real woman and She has found me.

Trust. That is what this is about. If you cannot trust the person you love then you do not have anything. i am learning to trust certain people in new and different ways. But I cannot have any type of relationship with a person if there is no trust and no honesty. These two are a must in my life.

I want to take the time to thank those people who have pushed my limits in a good way and have helped me become a better submissive and a better person.

i love deeper and i speak sweeter and i give forgiveness i've been denied.

"This above all; To thine own self be true, and it must follow as the night the day. Thou canst not be false to any man."

Daisy (Horny_Daisy):

About me

Please do not send me a friend request without a message. I love making new friends but I will not agree to be friends with anyone that I have not at least messaged with. If we met at a munch or a party, just a quick hi to refresh my memory especially if you do not have a recognizable picture on your profile. Thank you!

Writing about myself is hard :) I'll cheat by starting with something adapted from my Livejournal profile:

This is me in a nutshell: "Help I'm in a nutshell let me out!"

**This is a bit about who I am:
I am a spiritually confused, poly, queer identified bisexual, BDSM switch sadomasochist. I have a degree in Environmental studies, but I currently work in retail.**

I grew up in NYC, but after college I moved in with my Fiance and Co-Dominant Partner in Crime, Just_Plain_Mike and his (now late) wife (one of my best friends). Originally I came onto looking for a girlfriend of my own, and I found MyLadyKitten. More recently my poly cup overfloweth with joy as I found and claimed my treasured pet, judgetenderly. As thrilled as I was, there was still a empty place in our family. We thought we had found someone who fit with us perfectly to complete our family but it did not work out. We are now back on the market.

Female, Poly, Bi, Nerdy, Masochist who loves communication and cuddles needed for a relationship with three amazing people. All other traits negotiable :)

I started in the scene as a switch, but suffered a tragedy that caused me to put the Domme half of my personality on hold for several years. About two years ago I was finally able to move beyond the past and allow the Domme within to resurface, and she was Hungry ;)

I am the type of switch who is comfortable going back and forth as frequently as the mood takes me. We have an absolutely ridiculous amount of toys and we're working on the dungeon.) We love playing with submissive girls. We would also be open to playing with female Tops & switches, he doesn't switch, I do. I have certain major health problems, but they don't affect my topping at all.

Mike and I had been exploring the possibility of me playing with male bodied people. Not completely sure about how the logistics will work since it is a new dynamic for us. We plan on moving slow and learning our comfort level as we go. I'm probably not going to have more than a casual relationship with a male bodied person.

I have experience from both ends of the BDSM spectrum and the Poly spectrum. I've been a sub, and it has given me an incredibly insight as a Domme. I've also gone from a unicorn to a unicorn hunter. It gives me a much better insight into the feelings of a third joining a couple than many other women.

We have 10 cats, so anyone with a serious allergy would probably not be a good match. Non smokers preferred, D&D free please.

I love hiking and zoos and museums. I love to explore new places and try new things. I am not into the typical bar scene but I love to go dancing. I can seem like a stuffy nerd at first but once someone gets to know me they are shocked by the depths to which my mind can go. I love to read, especially sci-fi/fantasy. I'm addicted to my new Kindle. I like puzzles and some silly computer games. I like chick flicks and cartoons, action movies but not horror. I used to be part of the vampyre/goth scene in NYC but I never really dressed the part. I love certain crime dramas like Criminal Minds and Bones. Big Bang Theory is nerd-tastic! I also watch the Food Network, especially the competitions. My taste in music is extremely eclectic. I love chicks who rock like Melissa Ethridge, the Indigo Girls and Tori Amos. I don't like most rap and country music.

All three of us have profiles on that other site, you know the one that can't be named. I thought I'd copy them here.

Michael (Just_Plain_Mike):

About me

WARNING: I'd really prefer if no one pilfered my pictures or stole the text in my profile. However I realize that putting up one of the generic warnings that you see on so many profiles here is pointless. So Pretty Please, leave my stuff alone.

We've been living in PA a few years now, but have only started to explore the scene here in the last few months. I was part of a MFF triad, but we recently lost a member of our family to cancer. So at present we're simply a couple. We still have that poly mindset however, so we're interested in finding a slave to join our household.

I have been interested in BDSM since well before I knew what it was. Before I really even knew what sex was for that matter. Back when it was still PC, I'd be the one in the group arguing to play Cowboys & Indians. There was always someone getting tied up in that game! I've been involved with BDSM since my early 20s, and got involved with the public scene somewhere around 15 years ago. Took a break from things for the last few years, but have decided that it's time to come out and play again.

Daisy and I have an evolving/fluctuation relationship. She was a switch when we first met, but due to circumstances served as a sub for about 5 years. More recently however, her dominant side has been coming to the fore. So while she does bottom on occasion, her primary role towards any sub/slave will be exclusively as a Mistress.

I've been extremely surprised with her skills. She's got a lot of natural ability, and that's been tempered by 8+ years of learning from me. We're very different people, with ability and skill in different aspects of BDSM. Together, we're considerably better then we are apart. Definitely a case of the whole being greater then the sum of it's parts.

We played with a wonderful girl recently, things didn't work out, but she gave Daisy a great compliment.

"She's got an adorable face and intense eyes that get scary and this voice that's like cognitive dissonance personified. Kinda sweet and little girl meets she-demon."

I never could have summed it up nearly as well. Thanks Summer!