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I figured after 3 years or so it's time to redo the profile, so here goes.
I love to build BDSM gear, it's become quite a hobby. I build for strength, durability, and not to be pretty. The small dungeon/playroom here is well equipped with my own gear and many pieces of custom leather made by a close friend. My interests in BDSM run far and wide. Tight bondage, flogging, spanking, breast play, sensory deprivation, rough sex, sex toys, clothespins, kidnapping, interrogation, and many more. I can run from light bondage and soft play to extreme restraint and flogging.
I'm no pro-Dom and never will claim to be. I'm no hardass Master with an attitude either. I'm just me. I laugh, I joke, I play hard, and always, always, put limits and safety FIRST as it should be.
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I'm back after a hiatus from the web and a local group. I was finding most things rather boring which led to me taking a break from others. Perhaps what I (and we) prefer is too hardcore for others that we have interacted with. I get no real pleasure from hard floggings and the like with my lucey, but I still have seen no real purpose to the light "tap tap tap" spankings that I've seen with group parties. I believe if something needs done, do it right. Seriously, I swat flies with more enthusiasm.
I enjoyed the company for a while, but found very, very few who had the same interests. I have no desire for my woman to run around pretending she is a cat, to tie someone up just to stare a the ropes and knots, or to look in awe over a $20 flea market knife. My interests run wide, but are also limited to just a few basic things-heavy bondage,(mostly leather), breast play,spankings, floggings, rough sex, and forced orgasm. There is nothing like the look and feel of leather, and there is nothing quite like watching that 4th, 5th,10th orgasm roll with the unique combination of pleasure and pain while they struggle to have their legs hold them upright. Almost all of which I enjoy isn't permissable at clubs, which explains my quick boredom. We'll be returning though, just to have some interraction with like-minded people. Who knows, maybe I'll actually get a new idea or two. |
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More and more I find my lucey enjoying the mix of pleasure and pain I tend to give her. The combination of a well placed vibe and some well placed HARD paddle swats sends her into a world all her own. Since I have began to incorperate this combination, she has began to have orgasms simply from a swat, a tug, a pull, or even just removing a clothespin.........I love my job, lol. |
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Once again I have the want for more leather gear, but what? We already have a full set of cuffs, suspension cuffs, chest harness, full body harness, floggers, waist belt,misc. straps & belts, head harnesses, ballgags, bitgags, blindfolds, hogtie rigs....so many things but I want something new.
I'm thinking of a strap-type armbinder or disc-type blindfold....any suggestions??? |
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Last night we went to our first munch/meeting/demo with the local group I found. It was a great time meeting a lot of good people. We didn't stick around for the play party afterwards but plan to next time. Was nice to finally meet other people with the same interests other than those we actually see once a year. |
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Sometimes I look through the online profiles for something to do, plus it would be rather funny to see someone I know pop up. I've viewed profiles of very real people, I've view profiles of some that are so fake it SCREAMS obvious, then there are those of the "online" type. These are the ones that bother me most of all.
People play dominant or submissive online as it's a game, a roleplay game and nothing more. For someone who has lived this lifestyle for nearly 10 years, I find it rather insulting, but at the same time, rather funny. I'm sorry, but seeing "owned my master superduperonlinemasterdom" just makes me chuckle, just like seeing "slave wanted to give up all freedoms and bow to me" makes me laugh. It's online folks, get a grip. You aren't the dungeonmaster. Just because you can find some fool to pose on cam for you and supposedly do out your evil punishment for not remembering what time you sign on to Xmessenger, does not make you a dominant.
For a very long time, my wife and I frequented a chatroom on another server. We met a lot of great people there, the normal share of online'rs, and some that claimed to know it all. Finally about 6 years ago, one of the regulars who happened to be here in Ohio decided to host a party. Most chatters claimed they would show, but a lot had the typical last minute excuses. A select few came that knew what they were doing and had various amounts of real life experience, and some were amazing in their knowledge. A few that while in the chat claimed to be the "super dom of the century" turned out to be nothing more than internet wannabe's. Some of these people couldn't tie their own freakin' shoes, let alone a submissive. While several of us got a good laugh out of it, we realized that these kinds of people almost dominate the chats and websites. The wannabe's, fakes, and online'rs out number us most of the time, and that, to many of us, is sad and insulting.
If you're one of these people and are insulted by reading this, then well sorry, tough shit. I've spent 10 years reading, learning, researching, and acting out my every desire in the area of BDSM. I will never claim to know everything, I will never boast about what I have learned, I will never be the "bigshot" of any chat or website. I am proud of my experience, and proud of my small dungeon here in the house. I've earned that right, the online'rs haven't, at ALL. You make up stories, make impossible rules for your online slave/submissive, and fill your profiles with rediculous and hilarious statements. Through your making this lifestyle a role playing game like D&D from your momma's basement, the rest of us are actually out there earning our stripes.
Enough bitching for now...... |
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41 people at the Halloween party! Go firgure, we counted 30 at the guest list. It was a great time and most wore costumes.
I got a LOT of comments about the "torture chamber". A handfull did get that look on their face like they knew what they were looking at, 4 asked a lot of questions later, and one couple asked who made the leather gear. hahaha I pointed to my monk bartender and he recieved a nice order for cuffs and a flogger. My sister in law took at least 10 pics of the room, amazed at how far I would go for Halloween. hahaha yep, this is all for Halloween. I took out the bed and dresser, made all this fake gear, and spray painted a bunch of leather belts from the thrift store to look that way.....uh huh....yep. too funny. |
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Finally after nearly 10 years old talking, we have joined a local BDSM group.We've yet to attend anything since we are so busy with preparing for the Halloween party, but plan to soon. It will be nice to meet local like-minded people and have somewhat regular meets, rather than our once a year or so with our online group. I'm really looking forward to this, especially since this nearly 9 month layoff has put a serious crimp in any kind of social life. We're never "scened" ( I really hate that term) in front of strangers, so more than likely it will take a few meetings to get warmed up and into the groove of things....we'll just have to wait and see how it goes. |
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The modified weight belt has turned out to be quite an addition to the gear collection. ALL waist movement is easily controlled with this thing, which was the last part to be restrained in leather. Two black leather leash-splitters clipped on the side make for perfect handles. My next gear order will be a simple disc-style blindfold, though my leathermaker has already talked about making the penis gag for my lucey.
The dungeon remodel is complete other than the curtains which I dyed black and are now drying. After all is done, I plan to take and post new pictures. Low lighting with a few black lights against the faux stone walls adds a whole new atmosphere to the room. My lucey cannot seem to keep herself out of there at all now. :-) |
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I just finished a slight dungeon remodel. I found some faux stone wallcovering at a Halloween store for $10. It was only 55ft x 4ft so it took not quite both rolls, and looks amazing. No more plain white plaster walls! I took the time to re-arrange everything and it looks better than it ever has.
I'll soon have to make another board with hooks to hold leather gear since I keep accumulating more gear. My friend and leathermaker came for a 2 day visit and brought new items with him. One was an old weightlifting belt I had given him to modify, so now it has eight 2" D-rings around the entire front and sides, double riveted of course. (my lucey will break anything less) The other was a gift from him-a collar with a locking roller buckle and short attached chain. I do believe this will be something new for my lucey to sleep in, with her 24" handcuff chain attached. I gave him another order, this one being for a locking penis gag. I can't wait for that one. He also brought a hand-made full sized coffin for us to use as a decoration for this year's Halloween party. I do believe lucey may spend a night or two inside wearing her full body harness. :-) After the party, I plan to fit it with straps and have inside the closet of our dungeon playroom. It just sounds too much like the perfect place for a little time out.
I do love the smell of fresh leather..........mmm thank you again Phoebus |
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