I am actively looking for a loving, dedicated female who will accommodate my sexual fantasies. I will do the same for her. Being a dominant male and well-experienced in BDSM, As a dominant I will fulfill the perceived needs of his partner or sub, which are easy to fulfill, the challenge is to identify her hidden needs. These are often hard for the female to state and the male to determine. Hence, they are often not fulfilled. Meeting such needs is where the quality in a dom/sub relationship comes in. I am firm, but gentle, affectionate, loving, humane, patient, and non-violent; and am interested in meeting the emotional and sexual needs of my submissive partner and not incite pain and suffering, unless she desires it. I will try hard to fulfill all her needs because that is the secret to good long-term relationship. I am open-minded, intelligent, college-educated, professional man who lives alone. I am seeking an understanding person who I can spend time with, have fun with, and when the timing is right may get sexually involved with.