Well guess I haven’t pissed anyone off in a bit so I’ll make up for lost time with this one.
OK I’m not quite sure but I think if I read one more profile saying "submission is a gift" I might scream. In about 22 years being in and around this life I have only seen a few girls that truly gave it as a gift and they were the idiots that submitted to anyone and anything. A gift by definition is given without expectation of recompense or return. If you have demands or needs that a person has to meet or fulfill before you submit then it is not a gift but a commodity that you are trading. Now don't get me wrong I don’t think this is a bad thing at all. In fact I think that it is the truth of every type of relationship on the face of the earth. I guess I’m just being pedantic but it seems to me that we could at least get the definitions right?