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Hi.  I am sorta sane and kinda normal and looking to share real time with someone also sorta sane and kinda normal.

I have been divorced almost 2 years and I think I am ready to start looking for play and friendship and maybe more with a; funny, smart woman who also happens to be submissive. Effort goes a long way in my book and when you are showing it you will be supirsed at how hard I will work to help you. When you aren't showing it you will be suprised how accurately I will be able to sense it. I am looking for someone that needs stability and guidence but can (and want to) think for themselves.

I do believe in a domestic discipline relationship and I do seek a woman who wants me to be the boss (I know how unpopular that feeling is nowadays but I try really hard to earn that right and respect and don't apologize for it). I am loving and calm and think long and hard before making important decisions. You will never be a doormat I want and need your input. I am talking about a full time relationship but I am not talking about a porn movie...though if you'll make the popcorn that doesn't sound like a bad way to spend the evening :)

I am talking about dates and movies and dinners and arguing and laughing and quietly making fun of others and everything else that comes with the real world. But there will be times, wonderful times, when I will look at you and you will blush softly and lower your eyes and we will both smile because we share something really beautiful.

I have pictures that I would love to send back to anyone who sends one to me. Thank you for reading this and I look forward to speaking with you.
6/13/2010 8:29:53 PM
I have been dating a great girl for well over a year now and we have recently decided we want to meet kinky people in the area for talk and friendship and maybe play if the perfect scenario crops up. 
3/17/2009 10:27:57 AM

The entry below is written by the friend I mentioned in my profile. Her and her Husband are under the Profile MasterTNN. I know there are so many jerks here a "reference" seemed like a good idea :)   In any case the "visit" she mentions is what inspired me to come here. The feeling of a soft warm girl burying her face into my chest is something I have missed these last 2 years and she helped me remember that is a wonderful feeling...  _______________________________________________________________


Ok, so, I wanted to do more than just "comment" here, so here goes...
First off, I should identify myself, well, sort of anyway.  The young lady He mentioned in His profile that He fusses at on occasion and puts up with (kidding!)  Yeah, that would be me.  I am happily married, have been for 10 years, and my Husband is my Master (I'm a sub, not a slave).  I met Joe Sir online over a year ago.  W/we talked some off and on, then I took a break from the chat site for a few months.  Right after I returned, W/we actually kind of had a heated disagreement, turned out to just be a misunderstanding.  It was then that W/we started just hanging out things just kind of happened from there.  Yeah, just happened, that's one way to put it LOL.  He is a truly amazing Person, I'm so blessed to have Him in my life.  Master doesn't get onto the chat site we're on much, so He asked Joe Sir in October to be my Watcher.  I've been through a lot and don't trust easily at all, so this was a big step for me.  He has been more than worthy of that trust, and any woman would be very lucky to have Him.  Why mention all of this?  Well, I know you find all sorts of ... interesting (I love that word, it's so versatile!) ... people online.  I've seen it myself, there are plenty of wackos out there.  I want anyone seeing His profile to know how truly amazing He is.  W/we talk on the phone regularly, and I got the chance to visit Him recently (was this past week, but I know this will be around for awhile, so figured recently was a better word there).  It was amazing, just confirmed everything I already thought of Him.  I honestly don't know why He hasn't been snatched up yet, maybe because He's stricter than most (I'm used to that, and I know a lot of subs that prefer that).  But, I'll be the first to tell anyone within earshot that He's an amazing catch!  If You want Someone that will love you every step of the way, no matter what, but not let you get away with
stuff, yeah, that would be Him.
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As if you couldn't tell, I tend to ramble, so sorry if that's what this sounds like.  I guess, other than vouching for how amazing He is (which He'll never admit, by the way), I wanted to footnote His comments about O/our relationship.  Neither of U/us tried or expected things to end up the way they have, it just sort of happened.  Yes, He means a lot to me, I won't lie about that, I love Him so much.  That being said, I want SO much for Him to be happy and to find someone, He very much deserves it.  I want anyone interested to know that you have nothing to worry about from me - yes, W/we're close, but I have been happily married a long time and have no plans for that to change.  My Master also has another sub, who is one of my best friends, so jealousy is not an issue.  I just want Him to find what He deserves, and yes, honestly, I want to stay close.  He is amazing, and I will NEVER get in the way, but I do care about Him a tremendous amount.  He's very special, He deserves to find someone special as well.

K1965
 
 Age: 42
 Sterling, Virginia