Thank you for your interest.. I am not currently accepting new applicants. Good luck to you.

Playful Mistress seeks slave to possess indefinitely:

I am a loving Mistress, a real life scene player, active in the bdsm community, and a person of integrity. I seek a devoted partner or alpha slave to own in a casual 24/7 relationship. Balance is key, personal balance, relationship balance and balance between the bdsm and vanilla worlds. This is a real life opportunity. If you are more devoted to your fantasy than to Me, please don’t waste My time.

I am here to find a partner or alpha slave. A slave is property; to Me a pet and valued possession.

If you have poor self-esteem, need to be degraded outside a scene, must be a victim, have a negative attitude, are dependent on your fantasy, or in any way live in drama stop now and go away. I do not tolerate drama or lack of integrity.

For those still with Me, I’m looking for my equal, an equal in the sense of excellence, self-worth; a devoted slave by choice, not by feeling or thinking of oneself as less than. Submission is less important than devotion. I do not believe one sex is more superior to another. In reality sex and sexuality are fluid.

You should be confident, intelligent, healthy, and capable enough to run your life and contribute to My life and the community at large, a philanthropist a plus.

Fetishism and exhibitionism attract Me without overwhelming My sense of being. Latex is a plus. While I can respect a need to be discreet, public play and kinky social gatherings are required. In fact, if that is not at all an option, thank you and good luck to you in finding your bedroom Domme.

you should have a positive attitude, actively pursuing personal growth and have a general sense of ambition and excellence. It is most important that you possess a core value of integrity. In fact it would be looked upon positively were you to include a personal response to The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.

I am a real person expecting a real person. It is not always about playing, yet playtime is always under the surface. D/s is the basis of the relationship; however casual at times. you must be just as responsive to Me playing at the dungeon in full leather gear as you are at home when I’m in My pajamas and fuzzy slippers. (I don’t really have fuzzy slippers, but if I did…you would worship them.)

I’ve been known to laugh hysterically while scening. It usually happens when I’m being particularly evil. LISTEN very carefully, I am NOT the stern bitch or “harsh” Mistress. I am playful and childlike in my approach to play, while not falling into childishness. I am not domineering. I am sexually dominant with a high need for the possession of territory. you should be well aware that I intend to mark My territory. I often play hard and with great intensity. Pushing limits while maintaining boundaries gives Me joy. Punishment and emotional sadism belong strictly within pre-negotiated scenes. Although I do not consider Myself a sadist, the people who watch Me play do. Even so, I’m am most definitely NOT a sensual sadist. It’s boring. This is not about sex, though I warn you now, I love sex and intend to enjoy Myself. your orgasms are inconsequential. If you want careful consideration, put “Loki’s fiddlesticks” in the subject line of the email. Otherwise it may just be deleted without reading.

Ethical behavior is valued highly along with emotional maturity. I consider Myself a Buddhist and base much of My personal philosophy and life choices on those values. I believe in solid communication. The success of any relationship comes down to how well the parties involved communicate. I believe in consensus. Getting as much information as possible is of the utmost importance when making a decision. When I ask a question I expect a thorough, honest and constructive answer. your ability and willingness to answer contributes to the overall well being of the relationship and builds trust.

Physical touch is important to Me. I like to pet My slave. Though I like cages, and you will spend some nights in a cage, I enjoy having My slave in bed with Me often. It comes down to My choice.

In no way do I intend to deprive Myself or you either for that matter. Safety, health and wellness are necessary. Needs and wants follow. For example, monogamy and poly relationships are both negotiable. However, each person’s needs must be addressed in such a way that respects the primary relationship and each person involved. Virtually anything and everything is negotiable.

As for play, My first love is bondage- all bondage. I have a deep love for Japanese rope bondage and hemp. Impact play is fun once in a while. The sheer physicality of it enflames Me. Other forms of play I enjoy include, but is not limited to: water sports, humiliation, play piercing, cbt, and strap-on play. This year I’m beginning to train for fire play. [Yea] In general I love to try new things and I don’t freak out easily.

Ask yourself the following: are you a devoted and grounded person with a good self-esteem, are you a person of integrity who lives a full life, do you have good boundaries and communicate your needs clearly, do you understand the importance of clear and thorough negotiations, when asked a question do you answer honestly, contributing to the situation at hand? Please consider the reality of what you want and what you are willing to give before you contact Me. This will be a systematic review involving several exchanges before an audience is awarded.