Updated 9/29/07. i have been very busy this past two years with work and personal concerns. i have therefore appeared eratic and flighty. i am still busy, but not as much. i do need to plan ahead. i am not a 24/7 CD or slave. i need my degree of independence. i am a bondage enthusiast, and prefer to be the sub/bottom. i have some experience, but am also not well versed in it all. i am not submissive on-line. Roleplay/scene creation, and private/semi public dating intrigue me. Limited travel. Write me if any of this interests you. Flexibility in wants/needs wanted and returned. Thank you!