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My experiences have been vast and every new encounter has me learning more about myself. When I first started this journey a number of years ago i was clueless and happened upon some content online. I kept to myself online for the most part, but as I watched and learned from afar I wanted to try it in person.
Originally I identified as a submissive, I wanted guidance, I enjoyed the feeling of being restrained and losing control. I have served a couple different mistress who desired different things from me, physical pampering, sexual pleasure, or to simply be a canvas for them to play with. Some where online only, somewhere in person, and one was a hybrid of the two.
Since those times Ive also developed a dominate streak. I truly enjoy the beauty of fine rope work. I enjoy having a captive to play with. The concept of controlling someone else pleasure is a huge turn on for me. Ive also found that I enjoy doling out light impact play as well. I have had the privilege of dominating two different partners before life brought me back to Lansing MI. I was very sad to leave them behind.
Since I fully enjoy both sides of the whip Ive listed myself as a switch. My moods and lifes inter-works dictate which way im leaning at the time but honestly I do enjoy both rolls and can be accommodating to what a partner needs.
To me, these relationships require a lot of honesty and trust. I find we often speak in vague tones and dont clearly say what we want. Thats something im personalty striving to work on.
So to be upfront and honest. Im looking for a play partner or two. I would love to find someone that I could explore both sides of the BDSM coin with. Im also married to a very vanilla woman shes not interested in trying anything. This would need to be a discrete relationship.
Im strait, but bi curious. I would love to find a couple who would be willing to slowly work with me on exploring my bi sides. I do enjoy receiving anal play.
My goal like i said, is to be open and honest, ask me a question and ill answer to the best of my ability.
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