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Jii

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UPDATE: 12/28


We are moving to Colorado in March, and couldn't be more excited for the things that await us out there. Looks like we will end up somewhere between Denver and Colorado Springs.


My pet and I are looking for other pets, subs, maybe even a switch to join our pack. I would happily relocate a good, promising, sub or sub/switch here after we've chatted and ensured we're a good fit.


Don't hesitate to message me after reading my profile proper and we can get things rolling.


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I want to go ahead and get a few things out in the open:

*I am a very forward person. If you interpret that as being 'mean'

or being 'rude' then grow a pair of balls and get some thicker skin.

*I am rather cynical, to the point of being downright sardonic,

but if you spark my interest then you probably wont get stung.


*If you aren't clean, are over 30, or are just into the sexual aspect of submission then there is no hope for you with me and my pack. Perhaps someone wants someone who is poz, older, or simplistic, but that's not me.


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Hello, hello. My name's far from important up front, but you can call me Dez for now. I have been into the dominant scene for a good while now, and I have had more than enough time and experience to know what I look for in my ideal submissive.

Submission is easy. Any trained moron can submit given enough time. What I look for is dedication, devotion, loyalty - These things are far more valuable than anything else in a little pet.

Something rather specific about my take on this is that I look for pets, not slaves. A slave, to me, is a living sex toy. You don't love your toys. You don't care for an object. A pet implies affection, attachment, and attraction. This isn't to be confused with any puppy play nonsense. Any questions? Ask.

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I have been asked a lot about relocation. I would, in a heartbeat, relocate a pet that I became fond of, but getting to that point wouldn't happen overnight. I am someone who sees what he wants and takes it, heh.

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While what I look for in a pet is a rather wide range of traits, I can say what I do not like.

These are firm. I doubt, very highly, I would consider someone who violates one of these:

I have no use for older subs. 30 is a pretty set limit,

but it's a hard sell for someone older than me.

Anything that belongs in a toilet are things I am completely uninterested in.

Having worked medical in the past, there is nothing sexy about shit, piss, blood, or vomit to me.

My major fetishes are bondage, foot play, and, albeit weird, tickling.

If these are issues then no point in pursuing anything further than a polite conversation.

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I like to think of myself as an open book so don't hesitate to send me a message with whatever questions you may have.

What's the worst that could happen?

8/7/2013 9:56:04 AM

One thing I've seen a lot recently, although havent experienced myself, is this 'tribute' nonsense.

What kind of pitiful dom expects a 'tribute'? Are you so small, so sad, that you need to be supported by those under your control? Go out, get a job, be strong, or, at the very least, stop pretending you're a dominant. You're a child who expects to be taken care of.

What kind of moronic  sub expects to be paid for submitting? Regardless how you mask it and doll it up, asking for money to be used is nothing short of being a whore. Not a good, loyal little slut like some subs like to be, but a degenerate whore.

Get your shit together or get out of the community.

8/15/2012 1:57:29 PM

8/15: Between not having enough work to keep me busy, as well as not finding enough substance to read on here (albeit this isn't exactly an intellectually stimulating site) I figured this would be a way to both pass the time and jot some thoughts down.


How bloody boring people have proven to be. If not for a few people I have met, both on this site and through other dom/sub outlets, I would have to assume one cant be into a relationship like this while maintaining a level of interest and intellect. I don't need to find a pet who can debate religion, or talk politics, or any of that, but someone who can hold their own in a conversation, either by admitting they know nothing and wanting to learn or by having enough ground to stand on, is ideal. The only thing worse than someone who is unable to carry their own weight in a conversation, and I say this after meeting two, maybe three, people within the past month just like this, are kids, 18-19 year olds, who talk like they know about the world. A self-proclaimed 'twitter celebrity' who preaches about anarchy (anarchy while on a mass marketing tool.. brilliant, right?), another who honestly, to their core, believed they know anything about politics while, realistically, parroting whatever nonsense their parents believe, and lastly, my favorite, someone who seemed interesting until they mentioned their faith. Everyone needs something (who would disagree dom/sub relationships aren't a vice and a window to a psychological oddity), but being someone of science and reason I simply cannot understand the frailty someone must feel to need deities and faith.


I am sure I could rant more about this, but this feels good for now. Time to cook a late lunch.

blackangel67
 
 Age: 35
 Central, New York