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| Pleasure (not pain) Dom looking for a DD/LG relationship. Online first but intend for RL encounters. Patient but firm, understanding of LG needs with focus on aftercare and the day to day attention and praise as well as correction. NOT into cutting or extreme BDSM.
Msg me is you are interested and I will get back to you.... Looking for the perfect match so lets both be patient and see how it goes. Firm believer that every LG is beautiful in their own way... and this Daddy makes sure his LG knows she is beautiful to him.
So I have seen a lot of people who appear to be looking and I am either not what they are looking for or they do not want to approach me. Do not be afraid I am very respectful if respect is shown... I pride myself on being able to read and set the pace for your comfort. I am seriously looking for my perfect LG so please contact me if you are seriously looking for a Daddy.
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Ok so Im about to go on a bit of a rant....
First, ladies I understand that there is an entire group of Doms out there that are predatory, inexperienced and in some cases just guys (married or otherwise) who want a quick suck fuck and go. I also understand that there are many out there who are disrespectful and treat you like whores and they just dont get the lifestyle.
This may come as a shock but subs are not the only ones taken advantage of. Real Doms invest themselves a lot in rheir subs and can be hurt, used or betrayed and disrespected too. I personally have experienced this and because I am a Dom subs consider me indestructible. Not the case.... fucking me and then moving on hurts me as much as I expect it would hurt someone if I did it to them. I have been asked for money, computer equipment, jewelry and such by people who want to take and then leave.
My point is that while I understand the nature of needing to put limits and express your wants and limits but there is no need to be a bitch about it. Submissives that come off like that (and I will probably generate a lot of ire for saying this) are not true submissives. A true submissive does not attack out of the gate and be aggressive like that. Its just not the way a submissive is wired. I am by no means saying submissive women are or should be doormats but maybe wait until the person deserves that kind of treatment before opening your profile with such unwelcoming nastiness. And then complain that no one wants to talk to you.
Thats my opinion, take it or leave it /endrant |
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Today is my Birthday!
I know, I know you are asking yourself how you could have possibly forgotten but its ok.... these things happen.
I accept all forms of birthday wishes, virtual hugs, kisses, BJs and full frontal nudity are all encouraged and appreciated :)
*I have reached the point in my life where all I want is, if you were to hear that I died.... you would ask what happened. -Louis C.K.* |
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Wow..... just when you think you have heard and seen it all.
So I was told today that apparently I would be incredibly good looking and sexually attractive if only I would cut off my hair and beard... WTF kind of shit is that? I am so sick of the double standard, God forbid a guy suggest to a woman anything about her is not amazing and fantastic or he's a shallow insensitive piece of shit. But feel free to rip apart the appearance of a guy whenever you want, its not like we have feelings or anything.
To add a little context, when I was 14 I was in a major car accident (the person who insulted my appearance knows this) and broke 72% of the bones in my body. my entire band was killed and I was in a coma for 3 weeks before I woke up and began my recovery. The bones in my face were shattered and I was essentially put back together as best the doctors could do but I look nothing like I did before the accident, it was many years before the reflection in the mirror was one I did not consider a stranger. The scars I carry from my accident are more than physical and the choice of my appearance is one I have made because it makes me happy. It covers visible scars and hides things I am self concious about.
To have someone attack my appearance like that is not only shallow but also cruel considering they knew about my accident. Sorry if this is a rant but I find it cathartic to write journal entries, helps to calm my temper. /EndRant |
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Having one of those "Giant throbbing hard-on that won't go away" kinda days.... |
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Ok so I gotta say this. 50 shades of gray is not reality... its fiction. The dude is only considered sexy by women because he is a billionaire. Put him in a trailer in the middle of the woods and its a Criminal Minds episode... just sayin.... |
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So I have really been hoping to meet like minded people on here for the purpose of having a real life (not internet) D/s relationship. I have met a few people, One who is a great friend even if my appearance is a dealbreaker for her, one who is a perfect match for me but seems undecided if I am what she is looking for, one who is too far away to have a relationship even though she is kind and sweet, one complete psycho that is an attention seeker. I want an LG not a child, there is a difference. I was hoping Vday might encourage a few to take tbe plunge and give a guy a chance. I know that there are some horror stories out there and some aweful doms/daddys who are out for themselves and take advantage. I am not that guy, I take my role as your chosen dom/daddy seriously and as the priceless gift that it is. I mean what I say when I say it, that said I am not about indecisiveness and wasting time. If you want to see if we are compatible there is things we need to do so we can see if we are. internet chat does not build a relationship. Meeting, sharing common experiences, testing the waters and maybe even a few limits is what answers the question if we are a good match. Ok rant over.... I guess I just needed to vent. |
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So today was fun.... got attacked at work, not a huge deal but the worst part was not having someone to worry about me, if I live or die, am hurt or fine. Hell this is the closest thing I have to telling someone about my day and I don't even know if anyone is reading it, how sad is that? I guess that is the flipside if being a dom, we need our subs just as bad as they need us.... or at least as we need them to need us. |
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So after my last entry I received some encouraging words from people who have been here a while and actually may have made a connection with a like minded person, time will tell. Sometimes LGs dont understand that Daddys need their LGs too... sometimes more than they know, they are our safe place when the day is bad and the one person who we can do no wrong in their eyes. That can be a powerful catharsis when we need it most. |
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So I'm not sure what I am doing wrong here but it would appear that either no one is interested or Im a hideous chud... either way it amounts to the same thing, a hi msg, I respond and nothing. The few I have reached out to (not disrespectful like some horror stories I have read) and I get nasty replies or nothing. If I am doing something inadvertently offensive please let me know as it is not intentional. |
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