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WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do not have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
not looking for anyone over 50, looking for a wife and/or potential gf. i am VERY picky... so if i am not interested don't take it personally. There is a lot too that... i am looking for someone who is intellectually stimulating more than easy on the eyes. i think if we do not have similar interests then it will be a waste of both our times. If i politely turn you down. please stop messaging me. it gets annoying. if i am Interested, you can guarantee i will message you.
Limits: no blood, scat, incest, pee, pain, bukkake, Daipers, Age play, sharing my partner(yes i am single. i mean i only do monogamy)... not into inflatable butt plugs either... and no married or separated. I want someone SINGLE yeah usual no's... sorry.
I am articulate and intelligent as well, and i believe that the core of male/female D/s relationships comes from a genetic need to go back the the hunter gatherer society. i genuinely believe that there is a serious lack of gender roles in society which has blurred lines and made things more and more confusing, and going back to those base genetic instincts is what has caused the drive more to "alternative lifestyles" which really are not that alternative. they are a regression to our core human nature.
I actually feel that Women are the ones who control the flow of sex. In actuality, women/subs are the ones in real control of the relationship. They are the ones who set the boundaries... The only job of a dominant is to push them to those boundaries. I think the problem with those who are up and coming in the kink lifestyle get confused on the definitions of sub or slave versus dom or master.
As stated above previously the sub has all the say, while the dominant is just supposed to push limits. Basically what it boils down to is this, Most people who are dominants forget that submissives are not property, and still have say. They can get up and leave whenever they want and say i am gone. They assume that all submissives are slaves, and treat them as not having any say like a slave... basically proving that they have no concept of how the BDSM lifestyle is actually supposed to work. Because of this, I look at a lot of these people who say they are dominants and laugh, because most of them were not taught well enough how it is supposed to work to really have a clue that they actually are dominant. I have more respect for the people who put on their profile unsure.
Sex should be a physical expression of how you think and feel about a person. Every action should be to give that person pleasure... If it isn't enjoyable then it should not continue. This is why I am not a master. I cannot imagine blood being a turn on during sex. If a woman says stop because it is hurting... I stop, it is pretty simple stuff.
I am not Looking for a DOMINANT Female. If you are one, do not contact me. I am not going to submit to you. I am too strong willed of a person, and I find women trying to domme me to be a joke. So please don't waste either of our times, and don't contact me.
the reason that most mistress' want money, is for a few reasons
1. they assume you are a married man. This means, making it a business transaction for them makes it justifiable, when really they are just showing themselves in my opinion to be morally bankrupt and justifying it by saying "it was for money".
2. they think that being with them is a privilege, and for that they think you should pay, because they do not TRULY understand the dom/sub dynamic. which i stated above... and if they are trying to say it is for your health privacy or security, that is BS and move on. Your personal health, safety and privacy are no one's responsibility but your own.
3. they really are not Dominants, they are abusers
This is why they use the statement "your opinion doesn't matter" a true dominant/sub relationship is about blossoming someone's inner self. the SUB is the one in complete and total control. Therefore, their opinion does matter, and really is the only valid opinion. IF the sub says that isn't going to happen, it won't. Boundaries are there for a reason, and this exploration/blossoming cannot occur with someone who does not feel trust and security in their relationship or their dominant. Adding money into the mix, makes it a business transaction and completely loses this.
4. the other problem they assume, is because you are a submissive you ONLY want to be a slave not a submissive, the roles are DRASTICALLY different a slave does have no say a sub really leads the relationship with their boundaries. the dominant is only there to push those boundaries.
5. They think that their psuedo-domination/backwoods psychology filled with guilt trips will make someone obedient. TRUE obedience is given willingly. It is a reward/punishment system. If you treat someone with love and respect, they will give it in return. If a person is appreciated for fulfilling the expected roles and rewarded for it they will want to do it more often. Say a sissy is being completely obedient to all of their dominants orders for an extended period of time, and is rewarded by being surprised with a new outfit that they love, or was one they wanted while shopping. This will show them they were appreciated, and will get the Sissy to be more obedient in the future.
These are the reasons I personally would never dominate someone for money.
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