I dedicate this one entry to those of you seeking to abuse me thinking I'm an easy target for mentioning I was abused b4. NOTE: Not for the faint of heart,ect. If you chose to read on for curiosity,ect. Please keep in mind we all do what we must to survive!
My abuser went literally mad after we'd been together yrs on end b4hand. I left him a decade ago upon my 1st chance to do so!
I have since participated in over 2 yrs of therapy to determine I am not prone to codependency, so fit for another relationship w/o that baggage load once I felt ready to move on. It's been yrs since that I remained single by choice, refusing to settle for less than that ONE who I can willingly submit to w/o risk to my happiness.
In order to combat my feelings of feeling so vulnerable to future attacks I then learned well to use anything w/in my reach to physically wound & even kill. Along w/ the necessary ability to be able to follow through on it in that life threatening situation.
I do have strategically placed weapons hidden throughout my home now along w/ a pit bull I have hand command trained personally. We've learned to work together so even if you manage to subdue one of us the other one is still coming at you.
My only aim in this is to prove I will never again be a participating victim so is fair warning. Also if it gets through to even one person who's being abused I hope you draw upon my hope & strength.
This doesn't in any way affect my will to submit to another except how I may do it w/ all that much more free will & confidence. I promise my next entry to be much more positive & of an appropriate sensual nature. Take care & best wishes. |