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	jerainean


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	"S/M is what happens when the top takes more that the bottom offers but less than the bottom is willing to give." [The new topping book] I discovered quite recently that I can be slightly or very perverted, depending on the partner and the mood. With the right person I can be very open-minded and experimental. [Right person = excellent chemistry and high degree of compatibility]. I am looking for -ideally- equally open-minded and experimental people that I can be friends with and discuss whatever comes to mind without them blushing or getting the wrong idea. I am definitely NOT looking for play-partners or any form of casual relationship. I seek people that I can trust and communicate with, and if one day our friendship turns into a relationship so be it, but it is definitely not my primary goal. The exchange of interesting -and not so interesting- ideas, is. Also, I have a recently developed interest in polyamory, which means that I don't object to the idea of having more than one long-term commited relationships. It doesn't mean that I will lie and cheat, it doesn't mean that my partners will feel neglected [never had any such complaints] and it doesn't mean that I am fond of open relationships. I am also not fond of being anybody's secondary partner, if I can avoid it. I am an open, honest and communicative person and I tend to expect the same from my friends. I like to know where I stand and strongly dislike indirect, vague people who don't know what they want. I am also fascinated by bisexuals, switches and geeks. Don't really know why though. But if you are one of them, please say hi. Finally, in the same way that I don't impose my tastes and preferences on other people, I tend to expect the same from them. I know it is not that easy to be interesting, respectful, independent, loving and caring all at the same time, but for me this is the ideal mix. PS. I appreciate getting messages from people who have found the time to complete their profile and to read mine also. The rest will probably not get a reply. Good orthography is a must.

10/31/2010 11:33:46 PM

Oh here is a journal! Let's fill it in with the random thought of the day (or night)...Yesterday I heard this:

"There are two kinds of people. The ones that make your life better and the ones that make your life worse."

Assuming that the statement is correct, then I say we kick out the guys/gals that make our life worse. Not just kick out, but totally ignore too, as if they were invisible, non-existent.

And let's take good care of the other ones who are good for us.

Now you will probably say, what if there are people whose influence is neither positive nor negative. I find this hard to believe but let's assume that they exist. I say, ignore them too. Cause life is simply too short.

[I'll be damned if there ever was a cheesier post than this, but a gal gotta start somewhere...]