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JerLovesMetal

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PLEASE READ BEFORE CONTINUING:
I am a large girl, BBW, fat, whatever you would like to call it. My size is my business, and I will only change it for me. Just because I am large, does not mean I am ugly. I believe 110% that I am beautiful. :)

I identify as submissive. I am not switch. I do not have a desire to be dominant. Please do not contact me about switching/topping you if you're a submissive.

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Thank you for your interest in my profile. My name is Jer, I look forward to you getting to know me, and vice versa.

I am young, ambitious, light-hearted, cheerful, energetic, intelligent, optimisitc and a little coy. I overall love life, and all it has to offer. I enjoy traveling, attending raves, and the outdoors. I also enjoy cooking, writting, and the occasional video game here and there. Just to name a few of my interests. I am very interested in psychology, as I will soon be attending college with that as my major. I fully intend on getting my Phd. :)

I am a very receptive learner, I absorb information like a sponge. I enjoy learning new things on a regular basis. I also enjoy good conversation, and being around good people. I always love meeting new people and gaining new friends.

I will be completely honest with you, and I do expect the same in return. My integrity never has to be questioned, I pride myself on it.

I am big on protecting myself, I do not participate in un-safe practices. (ex. Unprotected sex.) I am STD free and get myself checked regularly. I only meet people in public places, and I do not play until I get to know someone.

I am new to the BDSM lifestyle, and am anxious to learn. I have been searching for my dominant, one who is patient, understanding, willing to teach, and help me grow. I have a very strong will, and strong personality, but I very much have the need to submit.

I have a lot of things I am curious to try in BDSM, and I have a very open mind. Some big interests of mine are: Floggers, riding crops, roleplay, age play, hoods, play rape, forced nudity, interrogation, and costumes. I have many more interests and am always looking to expand my interests and knowledge.

I hope you've enjoyed reading my profile. :) Please do not hesitate to contact me!

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2/26/2010 3:22:06 AM

While I am glad there are plenty of men out there (sometimes women too) who aren't afraid to tell someone over the internet exactly what they think of them. I don't really need, nor -want- to know what you think of me.

So here's a general response to your non-sense before you go sending messages to indulge yourself in some odd sense of self satisfaction:

I know I'm fat, I own a mirror, I'm not living some delusional life where I think I'm thin, curves, rolls, hills, whatever you call them, I got 'em. Just because you do not like it does not entitle you to remind me of something I'm very well aware of. (Remember: I'm not forcing you to look at my pics, you're doing that at your own descretion.)

While we're pointing out obvious things: I know I'm new to this, I don't really see the point of telling me "Well, normally I'd be interested in someone like you, but I don't like to take on new submissives because it's too much work training them."  I'm sorry you're lazy, but what was the point of emailing me to reject me when I haven't even let you know if I was interested in you in the first place?

And the final point..."You're not submissive". I'm glad you're an expert, really. I appreciate your expert opinion on what I identify as. Honestly though, everyone is different. You like doormats, I like to be treated like a living creature. (Not even human, in some cases). To each their own, I might intimidate you with my personality because you lack one. Who knows, but I really don't need people telling me what I am.

(No, I'm not saying all submissives/slaves are doormats, or lack personality or any of that. There's a lot of great subs/slaves out there that I've learned a lot from.)

And by all means, this isn't one of those "I don't care about your opinion, so let me waste time and rant about it." I wouldn't be posting this if I didn't care, so yes, I -do- care you have an opinion of me, it's flattering even in the tiniest way that you have taken to time to read my profile or look at my pictures and analyze me and what not. The point is I don't really -need- your opinion.

So before you rush off to send me a negative message, think. I'm a person on the internet who you will probably never meet, so by typing that message out, sending it to me, and me reading it. Just wasted time that you and I could have spent on some other mind-numbing pointless task that doesn't make you look like a tool.

End rant.
Tonight is actually rather boring for me, so after reading a few 'Bulk' messages and coming across this problem (I've had it before, but not recently until I read messages tonight), I decided to post a journal about it. Like a PSA, or what your mother would tell you "if you don't have something nice to say, keep it to yourself"... Though it's not always true, there's some 'bad' things I definitely -like- being said to me. ;)



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gypsy1
 
 Age: 20
 Never land, United Kingdom