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| I am a professional who is well traveled and has 10+ years as a Mistress of the Dominant / submissive dynamic. I have come to the conclusion that if the coupling between the Dom and sub is manifested in the correct manner and methods there is no greater source of perpetually grown passions for both parties. The level/s of ecstasy that can be achieved in a D/s relationship that has both trust and chemistry is nothing short of amazing in my humble opinion. Hence the deep levels of subspace that I have learned many miss out on entirely. One of the primary keys to getting there is that it’s imperative that the mind is fully captured and owned in a worthy way or the body will never follow. But the mind is the most sensitive sexual organ we have in my opinion.
Two reasons I find BDSM so fascinating are because of all the many and varied interests different participants have, and the tangle of emotions that one often has to sort through in order to make a good connection. The single biggest recurring issue seems to be for a man sub to be able to trust a new dom whom he might meet either here or elsewhere in cyber space. Perhaps it's because BDSM seems so 'underground' even to lovers of BDSM, or perhaps it's because the sub can be placed in a position of vulnerability, or both. As a dom, I don't think a man should have any greater concern about meeting a BDSM dom online as opposed to just meeting a man online in a vanilla context. If anything, an experienced dom is likely to be more considerate and sensitive than is a vanilla man, because BDSM experiences tend to encourage such growth and development in doms. Most of us female doms really do want you to have a good time, to enjoy yourselves, and of course to achieve great sexual satisfaction. Reason? If nothing else, we want good play partners who want to come back for more! Communication, methinks, is the key.
I know that your submission is a gift not to be misconstrued as an opportunity for the uninitiated to be abusive. It is built on trust and mutual attraction.
So some questions:
1. How much experience do you have? None is fine, I just want the truth. I am happy to train a neophyte.
2. What are your limits? Turn ons? Turn offs?
3. What is your favorite scene?
4. What scares you and yet turns you on at the same time?
5. Is this a secret yearning or have you come to terms with this being the way you wish to live? To serve your Mistress, to live to please him, thus pleasing yourself in doing so. Have you spoken to other subs and understand the full scope?
6. Would you attend a full weekend school for subs if you have light experience in this life?
7. Tattoos or piercings? Are you one that is the soccer mom who totally blends in, but gets turned on having a secret lifestyle?
8. Do you wish to be collared?
9. How are you prepared to serve Me.
10. Describe our first date.
11. Describe our first fantasy encounter.
Now then, I will not engage with you what so ever without in depth answers, just honest ones. I will also require pics immediately. New ones. Hold up a current newspaper or write Master on your naked torso with red lip stick. I have zero tolerance in a woman who represents herself with 5 year old "skinny" pictures. I will need to know your major cross streets to confirm you are not a spam robot.
I am real. I am amazing at what I can, and will do for you in fulfilling your need to find a Mistress. I adamantly will not allow myself to be squandered. I will be a gift to you and expect to be appreciated as such. This is, I am, a rare opportunity. Take advantage of it.
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