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I'm currently open to making power exchange/play/romantic connections. Moreso than sex/gender, what I am attracted to is the heart and a person's singular energy (and thinking you are my version of hot doesn't hurt a bit). My pronouns are she/her, though I definitely have an androgynous streak. I've been involved with Leather, M/s, D/s, and service (at different times, stages, and levels) for the past 20 years. I started this path in a chat room on mIRC in '97, and it has grown in leaps and bounds over the years. I'm service oriented, an emotional and physical masochist, and love edge play. I appreciate a top who can incite fear and devotion in me simultaneously. I'm a fan of canes, rope, needles, leather (especially gloves), latex, knives, scalpels, fear, blood, bruises and marks that stick, and appreciate a good scar, but all this is secondary to connection. Without good energy/power exchange, toys mean very little to me. I don't play to feed my physical masochism, but to build and feel the intensity of emotion that can be created within a firm framework of energy exchange. One of my aspirations as a bottom is to give my Top an open, stable space to play mentally and physically. I didn't say I've fully achieved the formula for this yet, but that is my personal goal. When I figure it out I'll give a class :). On the non-leather front, I adore singing, acting, and dancing (modern/ballet), the smell of a Home Depot, martial arts, humor, hiking, music of too many genres to name, science fiction, the written word, philosophy, psychology, and yummy food. I am a veteran of the US Air Force. I have an intense curiosity about the world, and my favorite thing is when someone can ping my brain in a new way. I have a BA in psychology and am in my last semester of grad school earning my MSW. I greatly look forward to helping people become more themselves.