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My name is Daniel. At this juncture, I would say that I am more vanilla than not, but I plan, and hope, to change that as I become more involved in the community.
Personality wise, I am the type that prefers to rely on humor and not taking one self too seriously. I work in the healthcare industry, specifically cancer research with a specialty in tissue diagnostics. I enjoy video games, watching TV, going out hiking somewhere or simply enjoying watching the stars out in the yard while drinking wine, or sipping nice whiskey. I am pretty easy to get giddy with excitement though!
I will note that while I can sometimes have a slightly sadistic side, for the most part I don't really like causing pain on a constant basis. I'm sure that with the right partner this can be remedied, but as it stands I am more likely to nurse you, than hurt you. I will never turn a good spanking down though! ;)
I want to take it slow, and I want to have fun. Even if I were to end up not having what it takes to be a Dom (doubtful), I would have at least tried and made great friendships along the way. Having said that, I very much enjoy Dominating others -- being in control. I am here to get a better grasp of command over another person, within boundaries.
Aftercare is very important, and it's something I wish to improve upon as well. Some may think that a beginner in the scene is being arrogant by labeling one self as a Dom from the get go, but allow me to express my view and reasoning for labeling myself as a Dominant (y'know, middle of the road) rather than a Top at this point:
To me, a Top is someone who has talent or style and shares those attributes with another, but following the bottom's desires. While I enjoy this, all of it is really up to the sub, and little control is given other than what the sub her/himself requests.
A Dominant, as I view myself, has a role within a power exchange dynamic. However, ultimately it's the sub that draws the line, and limits are discussed, control is established. It can be given and taken back at any moment. The dynamic lasts as long as both parties see a benefit.
If you would like to discuss any of the above, please, feel free to drop me a line!
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