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When I first came into the knowledge of myself... That I was this type of man, the kind of man who fancies himself the king of the bedroom, slinging a leather belt over his shoulder with a woman, prostrate, on the floor before him, I was drinking heavily on some island off the coast of Utila, a young Cayan hanging off my right arm, dark skin, dark eyes, her Caribbean-tinged howl begging for another dollar in my wallet...   No. Wait. It wasn't the bedroom. It was some dirt road in Hawaii; no, Kenya; no... Dartmouth...   I am who I am. Some guy somewhere who happens to dig what I dig. What am I looking for? Wait! I have to sell myself!!!   So, here I am. The answer to your prayers! Right? No? Hold on...   I am a man. Human being. Fallible. I can be a lot of fun, one-on-one. I crave connection, and that is what drives me to find the submissive in you - the need for you to submit. The physical is a nice bonus, but the connection is what is so valuable to me.   I am married. And, before you venture out to voice judgment on me, don't bother... Just move on to the next profile.   If you are still reading, then, good, you are still interested. I. Am. Married. I am happy. I have children. I am a good father. We are a good family. My wife and I are good together; however, she does not share the zeal for the whip as I do. She does crave the sessions of discipline that I strive to administer. We do not communicate with each other on that level. We've tried, and she does not understand the exhilaration felt when a woman truly submits her will to a man who knows what to do in that situation.   I don't have a life planned out, nor do I have a nice list of what I want in a submissive woman... It seems as if a lot of you here do... I envy that. I'm not quite there, yet. I do know that I really enjoy the connection - a sense of humor, a sense of what is sexy, a sense of one's self, a confidence...   I can give my time and what I've learned over the past twelve years, and, perhaps we can go from there...   Thank you for reading this long-ass shit.   :-)