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Dom/Slave Couple, 37/32,  Marina, California
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JedBartlet - photo 1
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I tend to be a homebody, I enjoy the peaceful outdoors, I am polite, respectful, and from time to time I find myself caught up in an adventure. These days I am a writer by trade, generally fantasy and sci-fi.

More often than not my activities include enjoying good conversation, board games, card games, writing, movies, and similar activity. In case you were curious for confirmation, the screen name is Jed Bartlet because I am a fan of the West Wing. A couple of times a month or more, depending on the weather and work, I like to get out for a trip or two to the coast, forest, or other like

My primary kink is control. I enjoy almost any type of play activity to one degree or another that is centered around controlling my partner. The more extreme for the partner the better for me. Everyone has their own individual limits of what they are comfortable with and skirting around them is the essence of my enjoyment. I love the feel of rope when I tie it, lash it, and cinch it. The real pleasure comes from knowing that it is inescapable, yet yielding to be left for a long period of time.

I have included a picture, but it is limited as a result of a need for some anonymity.

If you would like to get acquainted or you are curious about anything send me an email. I have a collared slave that lives with me. We are poly and she would be happy to meet anyone who was interested in playing with us together or comfortable with not interacting with someone who is with me. She would be happy if I found someone to further enrich my life.

Ultimately I am looking for someone who will help broaden my perception of the world and enjoyment. I do not have a rigid set of standards or labels to identify who you might be, but a good overlap of interests and a similar outlook is most likely a good starting point.

Good luck in your search and I certainly hope that each of you find what completes you.













Gender Identity:










 6' 1"

 235 lbs




Gender Identity:










 5' 0"

 130 lbs



Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Bondage (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage (Expert)

 Public Play (Expert)

 Role Playing

 Speech Restrictions

 Board Games (Expert)

 Historical Shows (Expert)

 Astronomy (Expert)

 History (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)

 Writing (Expert)




 Museums (Expert)

 Volunteerism (Expert)

 Camping (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Begging (Expert)

 Breast Play



 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)

 Being Massaged

 Gags (Expert)

 Housework Service

 Humiliation (Expert)


 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Needle Play


 Sensation Play

 Sensory Deprivation

 Tickling (Expert)



 Card Games (Expert)


 Online RPGs (Expert)

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Liberal Politics  (Expert)


 Antique Shows


 Hiking (Expert)

 Snorkeling (Expert)



 Fire Play


 Wax Play

 Cartoons (Expert)

 Chess (Expert)

 Cybering (Expert)

 Libertarian Politics


 Political Activism


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Journal Entries:
4/19/2016 1:07:47 AM
    I have to say that I seem to be getting checked out a decent amount these days by men. While getting a good once over is complimenting to be sure, I am not interested in taking on a male sub or slave. I cannot believe I am actually putting this up here, because well I didn't think it would happen to me, but if you write me multiple one sentence emails asking me to repeatedly consider you even after I wrote you a nice reply about how I was not interested how is that supposed to convince anyone? I mean I get it if I never wrote back or even if I put something in my profile that may make you think I changed my mind. Please please use common sense. I know that is too much to ask, but hey, I might as well give it a chance.

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