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I am new to everything and looking to meet new friends/people to help me understand a few things about all of this and myself. To be completely honest I am trying this site because a friend/mentor who has watched over the last few relationships I've had suggested I try out BDSM and try looking for a submissive women. I do agree with him that a submissive women may be exactly what I need. My friend is also going to mentor me to help but I would still like to learn a few things with someone. I have been using this site for a few days now and I have run into a few fake people. I.E. someone just trying to scam other people out of money. So if that is all you want is someone who will give up $$ easily then your looking at the wrong person. I have no problem taking care of my sub/slave when I get one but there is no way I'm going to be sending any money anywhere for what ever cause. I am here for serious friendships, play partners, and LTR's only. A few things about myself. I'm a super nice, sweet guy. That being the case I still like to have things my way. I am open to suggestions and such though. I love to be out doors, or inside watching movies, playing the guitar (electric, or bass), or playing video games. I used to be in the army but that just wasn't what I expected it to be so now I work in casinos. My job is a good one but I work nights so that kills my chances of a normal social life as in being able to actually go out and stuff on a regular basis. That's why I'm pretty much stuck to trying to find someone on the internet. I am on here hoping to find friends, or even someone who I could have a relationship with that is going to be okay in helping someone new to all of this. I am open minded to trying many new things. I have only been with close minded women except for one but the one time I was with her we didn't try anything because she didn't want her roommate to know what we were doing. I have also been told I should look into the whole 1950's thing. Not completely sure but have a small idea what that means. From what I do know about it, it is something I would be willing to try and see. I am attracted to exotic piercings/tattoo's. As long as they aren't over done. For instance The last girl I was with had 10, or 8 gauge ears, and a sleeve on one arm as well as tongue, and clit piercings. I liked both of those but I am not into getting the piercings myself if you know what I mean. I like to play with them but not have them. I do have and like tatt's myself. But not having/wanting tatt's or piercings isn't a deal breaker. P.S. I am not into anything involving myself with another guy so don't ask. Other than sexual preference I like girls who are true to them selves, adventurous, funny, strong minded, and a bit on the geeky side. I like geeky girls but geeky doesn't just mean they play video games, or watch syfy/anime. I am looking for people on here who are going to help me figure all of this out and help me figure some things about myself out. Not just sexually but also help me find my true inner self.
6/11/2011 4:28:29 PM

So I have had several relationships in the past where when things start to get out of my control I start to panic and everything goes to hell. That's why my friend suggested that I find a sub girl. I'm not exactly looking for whips and chains but I wont say no to trying it. In public I am pretty normal. I dress casual, and like to go have a few beers and shoot pool. I love to canoe, camp and all those things. But I have always been interested in experimenting emotionally and sexually.

 

The one thing is though I am not attracted to large women. By large I mean I like to be the larger one (weight wise) I prefer to be taller too but not a deal breaker. I am sorry if that rules you out but I am just not attracted to that. Nothing against large people. Some of my best friends are 280lbs+

 

So that's a few things about me that might help you to get to know me. If you are reading this please feel free to ask me any question you like.

MistressThorne01
 
 Age: 24
 London, Canada