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Update June 1, 2013:
Haven't been to CM for a few years now. Surprised that I even remember my password. But I thought I'd come back and see if there are any REAL people left here anymore.
Before you ask, I am NOT looking for a 24/7, live-in slave relationship, so please do not bother to write to me if that is the ONLY thing you are interested in and the ONLY thing you have to offer because I will NOT reply. Also, if you are a single male then do NOT write to me at all because I probably will NOT even bother to open your email and you will just be wasting your time on a fruitless effort to get my attention. But, if you are a masochistic male slave, and NOT a switch, then please do get in touch with me.
What AM I seeking? I am looking for friendship and casual BDSM encounters on weekends with like-minded female/male couples or single dominant women. Yes, I am looking for encounters involving sex, B&D, SM, and slave servitude but ONLY on weekends and not a permanent situation. I am also looking for friendship in the sense that we might get together for a purely vanilla day together as well. Basically, I am seeking someone who understands the unique urges and desires of a submissive sexual masochist, someone who wants to share and MUTUALLY enjoy that aspect of my personality when I need to give expression to it, and someone who wants to explore with me new and imaginative ways for me to use my body and join me in experimenting with original and creative ways of blending pain and pleasure. Also, someone who will be eager to go to parties with me, sit around with a bowl of popcorn and watch a DVD with me, go shopping with me, and just simply be my special friend.
As I said, my main interest is in dominant female/male couples and single dominant women. But, I am also interested in making friends with other women (married or single) who share my interest in things of a submissive and sexually masochistic nature. Oh, yes, there ARE things two slaves can do together that are almost as gratifying as sharing yourself with a real dominant. Besides that, sitting around on the floor with a bottle of good wine to just talk is fun as well. You can learn a lot about your inner workings when you share intimate conversations with a friend who also has your unique interests. Masochistic guys can write me as well, and for the same reasons.
So, the bottom line is that I am looking for something specific by joining this Collar Me website, and if your own wants and needs do not conform to what I am looking for then please do not waste my time or yours. And, if you do not live within a reasonable driving distance from Washington, DC, then do not write either since it would be difficult for us to carry on a truely meaningful friendship or make it possible for us to get together on a regular basis.
I have been told that this site is full of fakers and frauds. As far as I am concerned, if you do not spend time writing an introductory letter of substance, and if you just bang out one or two lines that tell me little to nothing about why I should get in touch with you, then you are probably one of those people. If you are attracted to me then you will want to put some effort into making contact and into convincing me that we really do have the basis for a good and lasting friendship. Also, if you did not post a photo to your profile then please send one with you initial contact so I can put a face to the words.
Now, a bit about me. I am single and have never been married. I am 28 years old and live in Washington, DC, on Connecticut Avenue. I am employed by the Federal Government (the Department of Defense) as a Software Engineer and I have a BS in Mathematics and an MS in Computer Science. My passions are outdoor activities (everything from swimming and hiking to camping and rock climbing), playing sport (softball, volleyball, and tennis), cats, dancing, reading, surfing the net, amateur theatrical groups, flea markets, travel and road trips, playing the flute and piano, classical and country music (how about that for a wide range of taste), fine wines, gourmet cooking, furniture design, history, museums, movies, and poker. Oh, did I mention I am interested in BDSM a well? :)
I do have a pretty high I.Q. but I'm also very down to earth and not "full of myself". I feel just as comfortable swigging a beer in a pair of tight jeans, after working up a sweat riding a mechanical bull, as I do sipping champagne in a strapless evening gown, just before a performance at the Kennedy Center. I can curse and swear with the best of them or recite the poetry of Keats and e.e.cummings from memory. You can take me out to dinner at a greasy-spoon, where I'll happily order their "blue plate special", or take me to a French restaurant where I'll order my meal IN FRENCH. I guess you can call me a "sophisticate" who isn't afraid or ashamed to be a "slut". :)
Now, why don't you tell me about yourself.
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