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Hi :) I am a busy, motivated, independent, self-supporting student. I have had D/s fantasies (as the submissive) for as long as I can remember and have decided that I cannot live without it in my life. I am looking to meet a man with complementary interests who is also independent, stable, and kind. I am not experienced, but I am smart and enthusiastic, and eager to learn ;). I suppose I should be clear from the beginning, I am not looking for no-strings-attached sex. It is also true that I have a busy schedule as a working student, so I am looking for someone close by. My fantasies are not the most extreme (unless you just compare them to vanilla sex, haha), but I am willing to give lots of different things a try.

Someone sent me a message asking why I'm looking on CM instead of match.com (because of the lack of details). I suppose this person has a point :)
I am looking for a 24 hour D/s relationship in many respects. I am looking for someone who is more quali than I am. However- I am pretty competent at running my life, so simply having a dominant personality is not enough to qualify. I want a man who is thoughtful, considerate, intelligent, and confident enough to counteract my nervous and anxious tendencies. This man should not be threatened by my desire to continue to pursue my education- he should encourage it. This man should be looking for a sub he can be proud of, who is an asset not a liability, and who (because of my lack of experiences outside of my own imagination) is practically a blank slate sexually. The particular sexual acts I like are outlined on the list at left, but my mind is open. The most important part of a D/s sexual experience is not necessarily the sexual act, but the power dynamic surrounding that act. That is what is important to me. Sure, I have limits, but I expect them to be stretched- with care and concern for my wellbeing.
raredelight
 
 Age: 26
 Renton, Washington