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Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - whip in one hand - paddle in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming - "WOO HOO! What a Ride!"
I'm very into D/s using every day life - I love the clash of you every day eating at the dining table that you were beaten against rather than the fantasy of the remote dark dank cellar. It’s about using what’s to hand and not oodles of specialist kit, it has more of an immediacy and passion that way.
As with every journey through life I'm always learning and adding to what I like but hair play especially fascinates me, I guess it's meddling with a key aspect of your vanity and the ability to do it anywhere anytime. In physical play I get quite sadistic, I love rope bondage and orgasm control with some breath play in the mix, it’s all the about the intimacy that these things create, even in a crowded club.
Outside the BDSM word I have the mini dommes, 2 delightful teenage girls, from my previous marriage. I live in my own place in Hemel Hempstead, a bijou chocolate box village north of London, well it was till they built the new town and I moved there. For a newspaper I buy the Independent but I'll read the print off anything that stands still long enough. I love films and music - anything from Blues to Heavy Rock and all points in between as long as its live. In my career I'm a high flying Project Manager working in the construction industry, you need a road atlas to see most of my earlier "portfolio" of work but the highlights include parts of the M3 and the Jubilee Line.
Thoughts I try to live by:
"Ride Forever, you ain't dead till you say you are" - RCMP
"Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed." - Alexander Pope
"Every man dies. Not every man really lives." - Braveheart
"I can accept failure, but I can't accept not trying." - Michael Jordan
"Life is understood looking backwards but it must be lived forwards." - Soren Kierkegaard
"I am not young enough to know everything" - Oscar Wilde
"Always do what you are afraid to do." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
"If it isn't broken, don't try and fix it" - my dad
"There's no problem you can't solve with a good fire" - me
"Never spend more on ice cream than you do on condoms" - someone cleverer than me
I'm also Mr Lovetrix apparently and I'm on as Janus_x_UK
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