I am an older man with curiosity about submission. I fantasize visiting a female Dom every now and then, perhaps once a month or so. I am attracted to the idea of being told to strip naked  of leaving my identity at the door for short periods of time and becoming not an individual but someone elses property. She might put a collar me. Then, within the limits of my needs for discretion (no marks, no evidence) and safety, I become her property for an hour or so. I might spend the hour or so engaged in household chores (washing dishes, doing laundry, washing her hair, other personal services) or other more erotic activities. At the end she might simply tell me to leave. Or she may use me within my limits or have me use myself for her pleasure. She might lightly spank me, whip me, or explore me, or something just out of her own curiosity. At the end of the morning or afternoon she might permit me release.

I am 61 years old, healthy, and married. Thus, I have a need for discretion. I have a normal need for safety. I am not aroused or attracted to branding, marking, cutting, blood, scat, urine, and so on. I am not particularly attracted to fetishes. I am not aroused by humiliation  but by being dominated, used, helpless.